Why would a "popular" guy go for a not-so-popular girl? Is there something in her that makes her special and different from the other girls he’s used to hanging out with?
Yes, there is something special about her.Let’s say, if I was a teen in school/college..She’s special because I’m interested in herShe’s different because I am attracted to herShe’s smartShe got her head screwed right on her shouldersShe’s not a follower of trends and crowdShe’s sexy as hell even if she doesn’t wear brand clothes.She can hold a conversationShe tells me “I will fuck you so hard, ride you like no woman ever has”She’s exciting because she isn’t popularIn fact, if she was popular, I won’t give a shit who she isBut because she isn’t doing what 95% of teen does, and she’s not falling for the tan look and guys who walk like they got something up their asses, and is into guys who are going somewhere in life, I see her unique, special and differentAnd when we have sex, OMG, she knows how to satisfy a guy and loves a guy who knows how to satisfy a girl.Just choose one of these, and that’s enough to make “popular” look so cheap, I can go and buy it at some store for $1.Fuck popularity. Give me a girl who is into me so deep, and into what I am into, and popularity can go and kiss it’s ass for all I care.That’s how I thought in school and I still think this way today.
Why don't girls date the nerdy shy guys in high school?
Women don’t like shy guys. The problem isn’t exactly about being nerd. I mean there are cool nerds. You can be a logical and smart guy and have girls. But if you are shy around women then you are in trouble.Because of society norms, at least in most countries, girls still expect guys to make the first move.If you are too shy to do it then it’s very… very hard for you to meet girl. As girls very, “rarely” approach guys. Also they never invite guys out.I am in my thirties now. For many years, I had problems meeting women because I was shy. I can tell you, “I never ever had a single girl asking me out”.Actually, I only realized this a few days ago. Yes, I had a few cases of women approaching me. I can even count those situations with my fingers. But asking me out, never!I guess you are young… so that is the reality.Despite whatever women say, I bet some women here will tell you that they love shy and nerdy guys. Even if they are saying the truth, or probably being polite and not trying to hurt your feelings.The fact is most women don’t like shy guys.So if you are shy then it is a harsh and muddy road ahead. Fortunately, shyness isn’t a terminal disease or something. You seriously need to force yourself to get outside of the box.By starting being more bold with girls.A thing you can try doing… is… walking down the street and start asking girls for time. Once you get comfortable with this, ask for directions. Afterward, say, “hi” to them, etc… and strike a conversation from there.Of course, you don’t need to do all of these in a single day. Do one for a week until it feels boring, then pass to the next exercise. You can also search online for social freedom exercises.I did this in the past to overcome my social anxiety and shyness. It helps a lot!As I said, the problem isn’t being nerdy. You have women for all types of men. But the real issue is being shy.Also I must remind you that most girls, even though they may talk loud with their friends, around guys they tend to be shy themselves.
What's it like being a popular girl in high school?
I'm going to be blunt. I was very popular in school, in fact, people dubbed me the "most popular girl in school". I know that sounds lame and superficial, but it's a fact; it's what people called me. It was an absolute blast. I was on a high, and I felt invincible. I did well in school, was pretty, got invited EVERYWHERE, people wanted to be my friend and I always had someone to turn to. There was NOTHING bad about it. To people who say "you're constantly being judged" - that's bull! Nobody judges you - they think your life is perfect and don't question that, and when you're that popular it always is perfect because EVERYONE is nice to you and you have no problems! You have a lot of power, and because I've always been quite grounded, I never abused it. I was popular because I was pretty, smart, kind and talented (I did a lot of sport and music) - not because I was a bully. Don't waste time on facebook, or youtube. Spend EVERY minute trying to better yourself! Learn things, be kind, be sociable, don't be afraid to talk to people, do well in school! Don't be "afraid" of the popular people - they're just people and will probably really like you and your company if you let them get to know you! When I graduated I lost a lot of my friends because I went to a university where none of them were studying. I now live far away. It was hard for me to adjust and that, I think, is the only downside to being popular - when you leave school, you have to start again. I have friends now, but not as many, and I'm not as sociable. People who say it's not all it's cracked up to be are wrong and have never been in that situation. It was awesome and I would give anything to be back there haha. Best time of my life. Best advice I can give you - be yourself, but be the BEST you you can be! I really mean that - people spend HOURS on facebook and things (like answering qns on yahoo answers - I'm such a hypocrit HAHA!) WASTING time when they could be using that time to do better things! Focus all of your energy on becoming a better person, inside, outside, spiritually, mentally, physically! Most people ARE missing out because they don't use up all their potential! Please heed my advice - it WILL change your life.
WHY DO MOST GUYS GO FOR PLAIN JANES ??!! I DONT GET IT !?
okay, there's this girl in my class, (high school) she's not attractive, but somehow, tones of cute guys ask her out,and the worst part is, she's not even trying !! i mean no style, no makeup, and almost no flirting !! it's killing me people !! she's more of a good gal, and she's the only virgin girl in my class, but i think shes just "ewww"...but i'm not gonna lie, she has an awesome personnality, she's really fun to be with, and everyone in school likes her. so my question : why do most attractive guys go for plain janes ? or is just me who thinks she's ugly ? (pics) http://i948.photobucket.com/albums/ad330... http://i948.photobucket.com/albums/ad330... http://i948.photobucket.com/albums/ad330... http://i948.photobucket.com/albums/ad330/007mdr/profile1.jpg
Asian guys don't get girls, yet, do you agree with my saying?
I am a 30 year old White guy who works with high school kids in his spare time, I notice that most Black, Hispanic and White guys are trying their best to work their swag at the high school level, rarely care about grades, and rarely care about getting into the top university. Now Asian guys on the other hand (all types of Asian from Indian to Chinese to Japanese) are busy trying to get a high SAT score, a high GPA and put together a good resume. I notice most do not date at the high school level. Well, at the place I work at, most people earning the six figure jobs are Asians (mainly Korean, Indian and Chinese). I look at their wives and I am, well, flabbergasted to see how beautiful they are. I see Korean men married to pretty Korean women, pretty Indian women, pretty White women and one is actually married to this gorgeous Black/White mixed woman. I see Chinese men married to pretty White women and pretty Chinese women, one is married to this stunningly beautiful Indian girl. I see Indian men married to pretty White women, gorgeous Latinas, hot Asian and Indian girls. Do you think that Asian guys don't get girls at the high school level but end up getting with good looking girls later on in life because they have careers that pay them well?
Are there any hot girls who don't get approached by guys?
My best friend from high school is gorgeous.Drop dead gorgeous. I’m quite pretty myself, but if I went anywhere with her, all of the attention was always on her, I didn’t exist. Guys would approach her everywhere we went and mostly ignore me because she is so beautiful.Guys approached her at Starbucks. Men tried to talk to her when we went to the pool. She was hit on at every bar we went to. Men would even approach her at restaurants. The stream of men coming on to her was endless, and she loved every second of it. It got kind of annoying.Two years ago, she got married. They really love each other and they had a baby together almost immediately. However, her genetics are so good she still has abs after her first baby. She’s still breathtaking.Over the summer, I went out dancing with her. We went to a two-stepping bar in Houston, Texas. Not a single man approached her to dance. Nobody looked at her. Just two years ago men had swarmed at her at every angle in the same bar. I could tell she was upset. She wanted to leave.My best friend didn’t get any less gorgeous, one thing changed. She stopped acting available. She used to smile at every man she saw. She used to make eye contact with every guy she found attractive. She used to laugh and dance and invite men over to talk to her.She stopped acting available. My best friend was now happily taken and that made all the difference.Being hot doesn’t get men to approach you. Being available does.Sure, a certain level of attractiveness is needed for a man to initially take interest. But, some of the most average girls I know pull the most men I’ve ever seen just because they act so available.
Why do white girls mostly date white guys?
I am in high school and I have never seen a white girl date a hispanic, or black guy. I always see them walking around with white guys and flirting etc. I am Hispanic and all the white girls I have tried to flirt with or make out with have flat out rejected me, and believe me I am not ugly. All the mexican girls think I'm super hot, and so do the blacks, but white girls just dont like me. I dont act ghetto either, Im just a regular venezuelan guy. Also please dont flame me, I didnt say ALL, but like 80-90% of them, 100% at my high school, only go for guys the same race. This is different for other races because I see the mexican girls dating black guys vice versa. And asians dating mexicans etc. I tried to kiss this white girl at a teen club I was dancing with and she pulled away but kept dancing with me. But then like half an hour later I see her making out with this average looking white guy.