Why did he act like he didn't see me?
A man at my work who I like walked by me the in the street. He does not know I'm into him. We were not even a meter from each other. When I looked up he immediately looked the other way so he did see me but blatantly ignored me. I don't know him that well but we know who each other are as we are in the same department and he knows my name. Why would a grown man behave in that way (he's in his 30s) he could have at least smiled or said hi, not pretend he didn't see me. I wasn't expecting to stop and chat or anything. He does look at me and acknowledge me at other times. It was just odd as he is very outgoing normally.
Why is he acting like this?
I am 27. My boss who is 42 is acting strange. I was doing grocery shopping last week and I see someone staring at me across the room, it was my boss. He was constantly staring at me. anyway I proceeded to the cashier, and he didn’t buy anything, he just left. I thought this was unusual as he didn’t even buy anything yet he was staring at me. Why did he do this?
Why would he act like he’s interest in me, and then act like he’s not interested at all?
Did you reciprocate interest in him, while he was showing interest in you? Or did you play hard to get, or pretend to be indifferent? How did you respond to his apparent interest in you? And — just a reality check here — are you absolutely certain he was interested in you? You did say he “acted like” he was interested, you didn’t say he WAS interested.
This guy used to like me but now he is acting hot and cold, why is he acting so strange, is he still into me?
Yes, I know what you mean.They are so impredicatable it reminds me of the weather in England.Rain one day, hail storm the next. Sunny for 10 minutes and hell with winter in bleeding July. You take the umbrella and it never rains the whole damn day. Then you don’t take the umbrella and it pisses it down.You want consistency and if a guy doesn’t give you consistency, what’s the point?Like me know England. I might as well fly to some place in USA where is blazing hot and for once, I can have one straight weather I can rely on.But I went to spain and walla. Sun all the time. Consistency.There was this girl I called Auto-tune because she was hot and cold.She was like the songs that are auto-tune .Gets annoying after a while and you just want one songs without the singer being auto-tuned to death. Just one time, a song for crying out loud.Annoying.She was was annoying just like that. Hot and cold. You just want her, just once to be consistent but no. Hot and cold. Annoying.Honestly, I have gone past caring when people do that. I can’t be assed with people like that. You don’t even want a person like that to be into you.Don’t give him any attention.Have boundaries and find someone who isn’t as annoying.
Why would a guy act like he has a crush on you one day, almost ignore you the next, and flip back and forth between those all the time?
In my opinion, when this happens, it is because of one reason or another.This person is playing games with you and is manipulative. They are screwing with your emotions and want some kind of reaction out of you. By being friendly one day and then ignoring you the next, you are left constantly wondering where you stand with this person, meaning that they are always on your mind. This is what they want.OR:This person has a crush on you and they have good intentions. However, because they aren't sure how you feel about them, their interactions with you are a bit all over the place. They might be a shy person and overthink things, especially if they like you. If they’re very friendly to you one day, they might worry that they've come across as too clingy or too desperate. So, the next day they completely back off (which you perceive as them ignoring you, even though they don't mean it).I admit that I have acted this way towards my crush - I'm a very shy person and never want to look too eager or keen if I have romantic feelings for someone. I’ve never intentionally ignored my crush, and if she has ever though this, the truth is that I've simply been too nervous to talk to her, or I've backed off and avoided her because I'm not sure how she feels about me. Pathetic of me, I know!So, ultimately, you need to observe the situation and reflect on the type of person you are dealing with. Reflect on their personality. Are they the type who play mind games? Are they looking for an ego-boost? Or, are they a genuine person with good intentions? If so, perhaps they do not at all mean to ignore you.
If a guy has no intention on being with you, why would he act like he's interested in you?
It could be that his interests in you is more as a person than as a romantic interest. It may also be that at the time he showed interests that he was somewhat on the fence, as to whether or not his interest was romantic.He may have thought he was being friendly in a more general way and you construed it as something more. Or it could even be that initially he was interested romantically then something happened which changed his mind.I’ve seen that happen with girls being the culprit a lot. They’ll really come on to a guy but then change their minds and deny any romantic intention despite it having been obvious. This may be a case of a guy doing the same thing. I guess they do it because they think they don't lose face that way.
Why do guys act like jerks when rejected?
It happens all the time...when you break up with someone, they feel worse than you do at least. When you ignore them when they want to talk to you, it makes them feel like they're marked as the annoying one who bugs everyone and is lower and immature. Even though he is, apparently, who wants to be seen as that? So now he's trying to put you beneath him by insulting you because he feels inferior. You have to be straightforward, but be mature about it, don't insult him or anything. Tie things in with the rest of the world, like, "It's not gonna go great if you treat others like this" something like that. If he keeps insulting you, he's probably over-childish, and at that point just ignore him completely.