My boyfriend and I were supposed to hang out today, but he ended up sleeping instead, without telling me?
I'm not sure what I should do about my boyfriend. He is always forgetting certain things.Today we were supposed to hang out. He got off work at 5, went home and showered, called me back at 6:30 and said "can i take a short nap before we hang out.. like 20 mins?" i said "sure, just call me back when u wake up." He said he would set his alarm for 7:00. Well, it came to be 7:15 so i called him cause he still hadn't called me. No answer. I was getting pretty mad. He called me back at 8:00, and said he had just woken up. (which he did sound like he just woke up)His first words were "i was supposed to call u at 8 right?" This made me even more mad. And kind of hurt. He slept through the time we were planning on hanging out, plus i hadnt eaten cause i was planning to eat with him. I understand he was tired from work 7-5pm, but there have been numerous times when i get ready to hangout with him, then we end up not. He asked me to hangout tomorrow instead of today. Should I? This is frustrating
My boyfriend forgot that we were supposed to hang out?
i would be a little upset, but i wouldnt get mad over it. if this was one of the first times he forgot... let it slide. now, if this happens on a regular basis... then thats a different story. and wowwww, breanne? seriously? you might break up with him cuz he forgot your plans? LOL how pathetic.
Boyfriend mad because we can’t hang out?
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for almost 3 months. These past few days I’ve been really sick and I went to the hospital yesterday. Yesterday me and my boyfriend were supposed to hang out but I couldn’t because I had to go to the hospital. He was mad but then later said he was sorry & shouldve been concerned for my health. We talked about going out today but my dad said no because he wants to make sure I’m perfectly okay before going out. Now my boyfriend is mad because I’m not able to be with him. He won’t answer my message. He said we can’t be together for another 2/3 days which is a “long time” to him. Is this fair? I feel like he’s making me feel bad for not hanging with him even though I literally can not?
What would you do when your boyfriend hangs up the phone while arguing?
My boyfriend has done this twice before, and I responded likewise.The first timeI was in disbelief. I tried to call him back right away so that we could talk it out like mature adults. He didn’t answer. I didn’t really bring it up later.The second timeI was really angry. If we can’t have a cordial, mature conversation about trivial topics like politics, how will we be able to discuss life issues like finances, family, etc if he can’t keep his emotions under control and respect my dissent?I didn’t try to call him back that time, but I immediately texted him, “Really? Hang up on me? Not okay.”He was on his way over to my house, so we endured a few minutes of chilly silence when he arrived before he broke and apologized for his irrational behavior and bad mood.ConclusionCall him out on it! Don’t try to wave it away as no big deal, because it is.It says a lot about his personality and conflict resolution skills. (Hint: you can’t resolve a conflict by abruptly ending the convo and pretending it didn’t happen.)Make it clear that this type of behavior is not acceptable in the least.If he is a grown ass man, then he needs to act like it.
My boyfriend gets mad when i go out with my (male) friends, does he have the right to be mad?
The following is an attempt to seriously answer this question, unlike the 3 answers above. Don't worry, not all guys are the same. However, it is easy to think that all guys or girls are the same if you keep meeting the same TYPE.. for example if you only meet guys at bars. If your boyfriend is angry that you hung out with other guys after midnight, then he is either worried over nothing or worried over something. Based on your question it doesn't seem like you are doing anything obviously wrong with these guys, but you have to figure out (or ask him to tell you) what specifically bothers him about this. For example, if you are going clubbing with these guys, I think that it is reasonable for him to not like the idea of you dancing in a hot sweaty club with other guys. But if you are just going to hang out somewhere, then it's not such a big deal. But it doesn't matter what I think, only what he is thinking. Some guys are very, very protective over their girls and just "don't like the idea" of you hanging out with other guys. Maybe your boyfriend thinks that one of your friends is going to make a move on you and he doesn't want you to be in that situation, either because he doesn't trust YOU, or he really thinks that the other guy (your friend) is trying to get you for himself. Either way, in my experience this kind of anger represents insecurity in the relationship and you two should talk about it. If you are 22 and he doesn't trust you enough to be comfortable with you spending time (even after midnight) with other guys, then maybe you should reconsider being in a relationship with him. Would you be comfortable with him hanging out with other girls that late? If not, then maybe you two should move on, or talk about it. Good luck, Jeff
My boyfriend makes me cry...........?
He is playing mind games with you honey, it's a form of control! He is learning very fast how to upset you, and he lets you cry for a certain length of time before acting like the damn hero and comforting you. Do yourself the biggest favour in your life - dump him, and dump him fast! You are setting standards here, and he is the one in control, trust me - never nice!!! Be strong, you can do better and you don't need him. Once you are rid of this manipulative piece of scum, you will feel so much happier!
Should I be mad at my boyfriend for standing me up?
If he did this before when you were supposed to hang out with him and that friend, maybe he feels almost like a "third wheel" to you and your friend hanging out. Or perhaps he doesn't like that friend. He shouldn't be ignoring you completely though. I think you should talk to him about that. It's disrespectful and rude and you don't deserve that. If he doesn't want to hang out with you and your friend he should just say that instead of saying he'll be there and not showing up or even calling to cancel. It's an incredibly low move and you should talk to him about it. It sounds like you don't invite this friend to hang out with you guys every time you hang out though, so I don't think you did anything wrong. I don't blame you for being mad. I'm not saying you SHOULD be mad, but if you are then you have every right to be. I just really think you should talk to him. And if he doesn't understand what he did wrong, or if he tries to turn it around on you, you might want to reconsider the relationship. Tell him a relationship is a two way street. You need to be respected just as much as he needs to be respected. I would say that he might have a really good reason for not showing up, but the fact that this has happened before in a similar scenario sounds like he's just being rude. But if something really did come up, try to keep your cool and tell him that you'd appreciate a phone call or something next time he has to cancel.
Whenever I can't see my boyfriend because I'm busy he gets mad and ignores me for the rest of the day. I'm getting tired of this. Should I leave?
You have, what appears to be, an emotionally immature OR chronically insecure OR narcissistically inclined boyfriend.There is unfortunately not much you can do about any of these possibilities.Emotional immaturity often can only be fixed with time, experience or purposeful applied effort. All of these MUST be done by the person themselves.Chronic insecurity can be addressed in therapy, coaching or similar, but again, it has to be HIS choice and he has to acknowledge his insecurities and seek out help to deal with them.Actual Narcissistic traits are SUPER difficult to deal with, navigate or ameliorate in a relationship. It would help for you to read up on the subject. This is often what most people would called incredible levels of selfishness. this kind of person seems to be offended that you have your own life and that your entire existence isn't completely dedicated to meeting their personal needs. There really is nothing you can do to change someone like this. If he does really have this problem, then he will need to see a psychologist for behavioural therapy (I believe - I'm open to correction), I don't know if there is even a way to fix this.I would suggest pointing out that his behaviour is unreasonable. Try to be factual and not focus on the emotion of the issue. Place boundaries for behaviour in your relationship (step 1) remind him of these boundaries when his behaviour continues (it will) and reinforce your comments of reasonable and acceptable behaviour (step 2) if his behaviour remains unchanged even after a few weeks (give yourself 3 weeks perhaps, go with your gut feeling on this), then once again have another conversation about what is acceptable and what is not acceptable, reinforce your boundaries and then firmly and clearly indicated that if he doesn't respect your boundaries you will need to end the relationship (BE SERIOUS! FOLLOW THROUGH!!)In all these conversations do not belittle or put him down, do not use the words needy or clingy or childish. Rather use more adult words that don't deliver blame or labels with them.
Do i call my girlfriend whose mad at me???
so last night on the phone my girlfriend was getting mad at me so she said "ill talk to you later because your making me mad" and i (joking around) said do i call you or are you calling me back and she just hung up so i didnt call her back because she was mad at me so i want to know when i should call her and apologize?? like today? or should i wait another day?