Why does my ex still talk to me if he says he has moved on?
You guys are both fooling yourselves completely when you think you’re able to remain platonic friends. You’re not at all acting like friends.He obviously broke up with you because he wants to date other people. He obviously isn’t at the point where he can be considered a platonic friend due to the childish way he acts when you bring up other guys. Personally I wouldn’t respect anybody who broke up with me to date other people therefore friendship would be out of the question. You obviously still want to be with him but can’t see he’s not interested in being with you. That’s why he broke up in the first place.Unfortunately neither of you are really treating this relationship like what it’s supposed to be. The reason he’s talking to you is probably because humans like to socialize with other humans and he probably doesn’t have anybody else he wants to talk to about what you two talk about with each other. He also probably realizes that you still like him so he knows you’ll answer the phone.If you’re using this quasi relationship as hopes for getting back with him, I’d advise you let that plan go as you can see for yourself you’re nowhere close to getting any where near there.
Feel hurt many guys don't want to talk to me anymore because I have a BF..Why?
Don't you understand? You have rejected them. I don't understand how you can try to turn it around and somehow blame them for it.
Why has my ex stopped talking to me?
We only went out for a month but he was a really good friend of mine... So yeah it hurt me a lot for it to end so quickly. About a month or so later I was totally over him but during that time we just pretended we didn't exist. It's kinda hard to do that when we only live like 3 houses away from each other though. I tried texting him a few times after I was over him but he always acted like I wanted to get back in a relationship with him when really I just wanted to be friends with him again. He still ignores me though :/ he broke up with me obviously so idk what's going through his head...The kicker is that he used me so i am a tad pissed off at him but the worst of the hate has passed. He's the only one that was considered a boyfriend to me so I don't really know how to deal with it. I know it's probably because he's over me but we used to be good friends laughing and talking everyday, so I don't understand why we COMPLETELY stopped talking. I liked him for 3 years which is how long I have known him so for him to just stop talking to me makes me regret ever telling him I liked him :( is there any other reason why he doesn't talk to me anymore? I just want my friend back...
My ex-girlfriend is talking to other guys and it is making me feel bad. What should I do?
You have taken quite some time in writing the description which shows your situation and I could not help writing an answer for you.First of all, you already mentioned she is your "ex". In such a case, she is free to pursue all the things she wants to do and yes, that includes talking with other guys.When you feel bad about her talking to someone else, this clearly tells that you have very strong feelings for her and you do not want to let her go out of your life. But guess what, she has already gone you see.Now, what you can do first is ask yourself what do you want from her now.When she has said ill words to you or about your family & friends, would you be able to accept her out of that or it was just a rage.This thing would be very confusing to you and you might seek an answer for that.What you should now see is that she has already moved on. She is already talking to other guys and basically doing the stuff she wanted to do.The point now is what you should be doing?I would suggest following simple plan (though life is not that simple but you need to start somewhere) :Ask yourself if you want her again in your life. This question has to be concerned with your own feeling and not the things she said or so.If you want her back then one thing is to talk to her clearly again.This might seem a bit awkward but the things are already silly for you. She has gone away and you are still thinking about her. So, better to let it clear out than hurting yourself emotionally for longer period.I am not sure about the reply but that would definitely help you make the right decision.If you can't talk to her then its better to get off her. You are 20 only. Life has just started for you. Go out, have fun with friends and get a new girlfriend. I would say love happens more than one in life so go on and find someone more worthwhile and someone who respects you for what you are than making you feel bad by commenting on your life and family & friends.Just move on with the life whatever be the thing. If you stick to the same point in life, you will go on feeling bad and that is not going to help. So, get up and choose the way you want to live your life than being miserable for yourself.Hope you are able to get my point. Best of luck.
My Ex Boyfriend Asks Why I Don't Talk To Him?
My ex and I go to the same school, so we run into each other a lot.He broke up with me because he wasn't interested in me anymore.I had to hear that from a friend instead of him because he felt like he couldn't tell me himself.He wanted to remain friends, but I didn't and now he wants to know why.I'm not friends with him because I think he's a jerk.What should I do?
Should I talk to my ex?
He broke up with me 6 months ago. He regretted it two days later. I didn't want him back because I was scared he would hurt me again. He had to think something to break up with me. Well, through the past months we talked as friends but also we fought. I think it's because we were both so hurt because we still loved each other. He wanted back with me, I was too scared to go back to him, and anyways my parents wouldn't let me. Well, in the very beginning of August, I ended things because I was sick of it. I was sick of hiding from my parents and I was sick of telling him no everytime he asks me back. I just wanted to be friends. Yesterday, I saw him at the fair several times and it hurt me so bad. All the pain came back and it got to the point where I was wanting to talk to him again. I didn't see him again so I left. I woke up this morning in tears and I don't know why? I thought I was over him but I don't know if I got the closure I needed. Instead of hiding from him when I see him person, I want to smile and wave and maybe have some small talk. I think it's impossible to be friends again. Should I at least text him? Saying I'm sorry for everything. I'm completely confused and all these feelings are so overwhelming. Any advice would be so helpful!
My ex said it's best that we don't talk anymore. Guys I need your help.?
If you really want a commitment, stick to your guns. If you want a committed friendship then go with that. But, make up your mind. Looks like he has. I couldn't get the man of my dreams to decide to get serious beyond only "saying" he was serious. It took several break-ups, but I was weak. I kept going back. Then I decided to agree with him and that we would be "friends" AND I was going to date. I was miserable, but I did it. He didn't like hearing about my dates and the different guys I was meeting. Last Christmas, I went to two different Christmas parties with two different guys and neither was him. As my Christmas present from him, he gave me a beautiful necklace --- with Friends Forever engraved on it. I cried in front of him---I just couldn't help it. It was not what I wanted and I didn't want to remain friends. I couldn't hide my sadness that he couldn't see how I felt about him. He asked several times about just seeing each other (without a commitment though) and I'd say no. Then when I'd want to say yes, I couldn't talk to him because I knew I'd get weak again. Much to my surprise, he proposed to me February 9! I really thought we would be friends forever. I believe that he realized that I had always wanted him all along and that I was not going to wait around forever---I have to add that we dated for 6 years and 11 months before he asked me to marry him. There were several break-ups and one time, we didn't speak for about four months. He is my best friend and I love him dearly. Even if he wouldn't have proposed, I would have always known that he was the "one" that he let get away, but I didn't lose him. We each had to make a decision. He had to decide to be in a committed relationship with a ring and I had to decide that just a friendship with him was not enough. There still may be a chance to repair your friendship. But again, you need to decide what you are willing to live with---stick to your guns and go for it!