Can my stepfather hit me?
Take it up with your Mom. If she decides on how you are to be disciplined, then she should also decide who does the disciplining. If you deliberately do something you know you are not allowed to do, and are snide and sarcastic about it, I'd definitely let you know I wasn't pleased with you either. I have always believed that the punishment should fit the crime. If you mouth off to your Mom and Step-Dad, then you should have your mouth washed out with soap. If you're bigger than your Mom then there is no reason why your Step-Dad can not do this with your Mom's supervision. If you physically attack your Mom, than darn straight that you deserve a whupping from your Step-Dad, and just be thankful that they didn't kick you out of the house! As you get older, you have to take responsibility for your actions. That means that you have to cultivate the self-discipline necessary to live in harmony in your home environment. You have no right to make your home a battleground no matter how you may feel. If your situation at home is really bad (with your stepdad hitting you for no reason all the time) then petition the court to become an "Emancipated Minor", and you can be responsible for yourself. Be aware, though, that if you go this route, you will probably alienate yourself from your Mom for a good many years.
Son's step father hit him?
Last night, my 15 almost 16 year old son went out with his friends and was supposed to be back by curfew (11:00 pm) and he didn't show up until 2:45 in the morning. I am very concerned about him being out that late but now I have a new issue. My husband (his step father) and I talked to him and told him how being out that late is not acceptable and that we need to know where he is at all time. We have not completely decided on a punishment yet, but it is going to be serious and he knows that. Anyways, my son came downstairs and my husband asked him where he was last night. My son said "out". My husband got off the couch and said "Ya, well, where is 'out' exactly?" My son said "not in". My husband was clearly angry by that time and he got very close to my son, practically in his face, but towering over him and he yelled "look, I'm your dad now and whether you like it or not that is not going to change, so where the f*ck were you?" My son was startled and he asked him to calm down. His exact words were "Okay. Please just calm down!" My husband got so upset and pinned my son against the wall and told him he was a little b*stard and better never talk to him in that tone again! My son told him to let f*cking go but that just angered his step dad even more and he hit my son! My son was in tears and begging his step dad to leave him alone. By that time I was freaking out and I demanded my husband let go of him right then. He did, and my son ran to his room crying. My husband tried to talk to me but I called 911. Did I do the wrong thing?
My step-father hits me, beats the crap out of my mom and now ... HE SLAPPED MY GIRLFRIEND!?
Call the cops anyway and call CPS since you're still a minor. For 1 your stepdad is a bad and 2 your mom is obviously in denial.
What should I do if my stepfather hit me and I fought back.?
So I live in the state of Washington. My stepfather always is yelling and calling us names and used to spank us kids he is unfortunately my legal stepfather. I am a 17 year old boy who will be 18 in less than a year. About 3 years ago my stepfather would "open handed" hit us. Well as we got older we learned to fight back. I'm not going to lie it's me and 3 boys so we were jerks but now I have changed my life around and I'm making straight A's and am on the honor roll. Now I Do nothing but respect my parents and do everything for then and then some. Well about an hour or two my stepfather decided to start yelling at me and my mom. He called me a punk, ****** and told me in worthless. I'm not a violent person but when I Haft To defend myself I'm not the person to mess with. Anyways I walked up to him and told him to say it to my face. He did and then punched me in the face. I then defended myself and beat the hell out of him. I was only defending myself. Now he had called the cops on me and I took off because my anxiety was going crazy and I couldn't breathe. What should I do I'm so scared.?
My brother hit my stepdad.?
My little brother, I'm 19, he's 15, punched my step father and gave him a black eye. This is basically how it went, my brother is kind of large for his age [not overweight, tall and muscular] so he is quiet a tough kid. My step dad came into his room before school and told him to get ready for school, my brother told him 'I'm going to do my hair and go a lil late'. My brother has been taking most days off school this term, so my stepdad got pissed off and yelled, so my brother pushed him out and slammed the door, and proceeded to sit down. My stepdad then opened the door, told him to get up and asked him if he wanted to fight, and grabbed my brother. My brother gave him a punch to the face, and my sister and mum tried to break it up [I wasn't home at the time or I would of torn them apart]. Then my stepfather said 'Punch me again', so he did, the first punch broke his nose, and the 2nd gave him a black eye, according to my mum, my sister, and my little brother. My stepfather yelled at my brother the next day and said he is an unappreciative brat and should be ashamed, my brother told him to **** off and that he isn't our dad so he has no right to touch him [I was at home] but I didn't say anything. He later went to work, and called my mum while he was at work and said 'I am going to push charges against your son for punching me?'. What do I do in this situation, as I am currently taking care of this family, not financially, but am the little guardian over everybody, since my dad is no longer around? What do I do in this situation, I dislike my stepdad also. Can he push charges against my brother? [My mum won't call the police onto him, she has a stressful enough life as it is.] Any opinions will help, and the quicker the better.
My stepdad hit my Mom, what do I do?
She has a big black eye and I don't know what to do. She doesn't want to report it to authorities, but I think that is the right thing to do. I can beat his a*s, I am 6'1", 185 lbs. He is only 5'7" 160. I cant stand him, but I know his will press charges if I were to hit him.
My step father told my step mother that he is not a good man. Should I punish him for saying this?
No!What is the context around the conversation?Who are you to do the punishing?What crime has been committed and how do you know the punishment would fit?He could feel he is “not a good man” not because he is a bad man, but because he thinks he could be much better.He might say he’s “not good” because although he gives to charity, he feels/wishes he could do so much more.He might cherish and love your mom, but feel like he’s “not a good man” because he can’t take her on the vacation of her dreams but can only afford a long weekend at a nice hotel.
My stepdad hit my mom should I go to the police?
When your stepfather isn't around talk to your mother about what's going on and how it affects you. Let her know that you have concern for her and you being around an abusive man. Ask her if she feels that the police should be notified because if he's hitting her he may hit you some day. Tell her that she's showing you that it's ok for a woman to let a man beat on her and not do anything about it and that just doesn't seem right. Tell her that you want to leave and you want her to come with you. Tell her that you and her need to find a safe haven where your stepfather can't find you. If you can't seem to reach your mother through conversation then talk to another relative and let them know what's been happening in your home and maybe they can talk to your mother. How about you tell your biological father if you have contact with him.