My mother called me ugly and it's hurting me. I love my mother more than anyone else in this world but she always makes remarks that hurt my feelings. I showed her a picture of me that my friend took and she said I'm ugly. Should I just let it pass?
No, no, and then, hell no. Do not pass go. And don’t get your $200.Shame shame shame, on your mother, for such, hurtful, hateful, harmful, cruel, and DESPICABLE BEHAVIOR. She is not worthy of being called a mom. FULL STOP.If you’ve noticed this, others have too! She is the person that needs help. Pure EVIL, SHE IS…….But you need the help the most, for the way she has treated you.Have you discussed this issue, with your friends, teachers? If not, YOU MUST. It is imperative you seek counseling. A Dr., or teacher, a friends mother, a neighbor? For YOUR MENTAL WELL BEING. Please please please, tell someone, SOON.It sounds like their isn’t a father, in the home. Do you have a relationship, with your dad? It, too, sounds like your mother is resentful, of this fact. She is angry, and she is taking it out on you.You cannot go through life, resenting your mother, for her childish behavior. You are being BULLIED..YOU know it, SHE knows it, and now QUORA knows it.Someone, anyone, out there, THIS CHILD NEEDS YOUR HELP. I would take this brave child in. Unfortunately, I don’t have any information. So my child, take this to an adult, you can trust. Perhaps someone in authority, at school. Show them, you are being mentally degraded in your home. Show them any other answers you have received.NO ONE SHOULD EVER BE BULLIED. NEVER!! Especially in the home. Your mom needs help. You need help. Why she is punishing you, mentally, is reprehensible. FULL STOP. But you must find out. Now.I’m sending you my love. And many hugs and kisses. YOU MATTER TO ME, AND IM SURE ALL, THAT GETS A CHANCE, TO READ ABOUT YOUR PLIGHT, “YOU WILL MATTER”, TO THEM!!SO, GO FORTH AND CONQUER, your MOM’S DEMONS, and Your dreams!!FONDLY….Chris
My girlfriend has become ugly. I love her, but I'm not physically attracted to her anymore. I am in a helpless situation. What should I do?
Okay. It's a bit old topic but Here is the other side. Depends on what you find ugly about her. Few months ago my bf told me I should take care more of my face skin cuz I started neglecting it. He never said I should wear make up or do some drastic changes on myself. He just said that for my good and I realised it. At first I was a bit upset. Trust me I started telling him to go and find someone else, more beautiful girl, and he was replying: “ I dont want to find someone else. I love you and I only tell you this because I care for you.” That repeated many times by the time , I started looking more in the mirror and noticed all those pimples that had appeared there, together with blackheads. Although, he was telling me I was beautiful, I really found it disturbing. And I should admitit is not really healthy and attractive. If you love that girl, give her advices how to treat herself, be her motivator. Show that you care. Sometimes we just need a little push in the right direction but it got to be with the right words. Be kind to her, not harsh. Never stop showing you love her, if you really do. I am maniak on being fit and sometimes go extreme in that direction. He always tells me is not healthy to diet and that he loves my body. Maybe some of you still will think he doesn't love me, but I see it in his actions, however, even if you are right, at least I know he was the motivation I needed in my life. That's how I respect myself more and do pay more attention to the details. I still don't wear any make up, I just take more care of my skin. Nice but honest words is is the key.
People call me fake because I wear makeup?
I hate it so much and quite frankly I'm over it. Everyone tells me I wear too much makeup, I look too artificial, and my eyebrows are so fake. I'm only being myself. Just because I wear too much to you doesn't mean it's too much for me. Tell me what you guys think of my makeup. Honest responses please.
Ladies, why do you wear make up?
I used to wear makeup because I was quite insecure with how I looked. Every girl I knew in 8th grade who wore makeup, was popular, had a boyfriend, etc. Typical for girls, or some, I'd say. At that point, I caved and started wearing makeup, but not a lot. My mom was strict with how much I wore, in which I only thank her for now, because she always stressed natural beauty. Now, I wear makeup some days, and some days I got full out natural. With makeup, I have found it to be an "Art". I like to learn new techniques or styles, just because I love learning in general. I may never have been able to paint Mona Lisa, but I can drop a winged eyeliner like you couldn't believe. I do not wear makeup to impress guys, or to feel accepted as my once little younger self once had. Now, I wear it to just simply wear it, and every lady should know she doesn't need any type of makeup to be beautiful, but that doesn't mean they shouldn't wear makeup. As someone said on this thread, if they don't wear the blue lipstick, then who will?
Why does most of girls try to hide their personality behind makeup?
I'm not sure that i've ever heard of them being nicer. Some people use it to boost their confidence. Makeup is like an accessory. if my bracelet doesn't make me "nicer" why should make-up? Make-up (like jewelry) doesn't change anything about anyones actual personality. Its kind of like adding salt to your food. It doesn't chemically change your food, it simplys adds flavor. Make-up isn't changing anything your personality it's simply adding flavor.
Am I ugly or just not confident? :( I really need help.?
3/10. Have someone give you a black eye. That would be an improvement
Foundation always separates and looks weird on my nose. Why does this happen?
Very simple. Happens because your nose secrets too much oil. To control the level of oils in your skin, make sure you are using skin care products as per your skin type.Always start off with a primer. Primers helps to give you a flawless and seamless base while mattyfying the skin as well. Use a light weight foundation and blend it well.Also, make sure to control your pores. You watch a tutorial here and know how to control/minimise your pores \U0001f449\U0001f3fb