What are the five most important things a man has to consider in a woman for marriage in India?
There are many qualities a woman have and out of that picking only five is quite tough. Finding the right woman someone we can ride the waves of life with, who will stand by our side for better or for worse. The woman we decide to share our world with is the one who will mother our children, help us plan life, pick us up when we’re down and make us better men than we are right now.The following qualities every man must consider for being in a life long relationship.IntelligenceStimulating conversations can make you go crazy. Intelligent women are ones who know so much about the world around them, but even more so, have a keen interest in making it a better place.This doesn’t require a degree from Harvard, just intellect, reasoning and understanding.Independent and confidentNothing is more sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin and independent. Woman who can stand as his equal. She must be independent in thinking, financially, taking decisions.Honest, Kind, HumbleWe prefer honest women, positive personality traits like openness, kindness, and assertiveness particularly for long-term relationships.Humble women exude this compassion for others, putting others’ happiness before their own. But, they do this in such a way that brings them peace and protection.Gracefulness and EnthusiasticKnowing that someone has this desire to put us first immediately shows that your ego won’t get in the way of creating a strong partnership.Gracefully standing equally on the side of her partner is the biggest quality of the partner. Determined women are more graceful because they understand what it takes to get there.PatienceThe patience is the utmost quality which is quite rare but scored highest in any individual.sensuousLooks doesn't matter but it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw eyes on her when she enters the room.
What things should you consider when choosing a primary care doctor?
This is good because OBGYN's are especially doctors for women and women problems. You should consider your own feelings too: do you want a male doctor, or a female doctor? Which gender would you feel more comfortable with?
What do you consider to be the perfect woman?
Here’s my list, for what it’s worth:A woman who is even-keeled and that you (most of the time) know what you can expect from her day-t0-day.A woman that wants to please you and make you happy as much as you want to do the same for her.Someone who genuinely cares about you, and has your back. Someone who won’t talk badly about you given the chance.A woman who is not overly possessive.A woman who realizes how important a great sex life is to her man, and does her best to keep him happy and feel appreciated.A woman who refuses to nag.A woman to whom your lives together are a great adventure, and wants to always keep things fun and exciting.A woman who’s faithful and wouldn’t dream of betraying your trust, as you shouldn’t betray hers.A woman who is happy with who you are, and doesn’t try to change you.A woman who cares about her appearance and wants to look good for you.And finally, a woman who supports you in your life’s goals and ambitions—someone who is a true teammate and wants the best for you at all times.I must say, if I ever me this woman, I might reconsider my stance on marriage. But I’m not holding my breath. :)
What are some things that are considered okay if you're a man but shameful or rude if you're a woman?
Loving someone. Especially in INDIA.Listen, I'll tell you two stories now.1. My Brother's story:He loved a girl.They confessed their love to our respective families.My parents accepted their love.Unfortunately, the girl's parents declined.My parents supported my Brother for his love, and they're in a sturdy way to get their beloved Daughter-in-law.2. My Sister's story:She loved a guy.They confessed their love to our respective families.The guy's parents accepted their love.Unfortunately, my parents declined.The guy's parents supported him for his love, and they're in a sturdy way to get their beloved Daughter-in-law.My parents blamed my Sister that she had brought dishonour to our family.They even hit her hard for this unjust activity.They really had an hard time to accept the guy.Hope you get the hypocrisy in both the above stories. In both the cases, the guy's parents agreed and are very strong to get their respective Daughter-in-laws.Also in both the cases, the girl's parents played a stubborn role.Loving someone especially in INDIA, is okay if you're a Man, but shameful or rude if you're a Woman.♡54♡
What do YOU consider to be romantic?
Okay, what I think of as romantic when it comes to making a woman happy is efforts that display thoughtfulness, attention to detail, making things personalized and special showing that you have listened and taken note of her interests and preferences, and creating an overall atmosphere or mood. But the tricky thing is also to be spontaneous because mechanical and formulaic and routine are not romantic, even if the routine seems romantic. So you have to find a balance. But that's almost impossible: planned spontaneity is an oxymoron. So a lot of times, I will think up different romantic things, making a long list, then set it aside and when a circumstance arrives when it's appropriate, I have it all planned out but for her it feels spur of the moment. Art, nature, mood, lighting, ambience, the exotic like foods from faraway lands, passion, sentiment, sensuality... all of these things are elements of being romantic.
Married women, do you consider an online affair "cheating"?
if you found out that your husband had been exchanging sexual emails and chatting with a woman online, but they never met and engaged in any sexual act....would you still consider him a cheater? what would you think of the woman he's been talking to, if she knows that your husband is married?
What do you consider a "beautiful woman"?
Smooth skinLong, dark hairShapely legs/thighsBrown eyesOlive skinPersonable, affable attitudeSound morals/strong moral compassIntelligenceLack of tattoos (tattoos just kill it, in my opinion)
Am I still considered bisexual if I don't want to date women?
You know, I saw this question before, about a guy who liked to have sex with guys but romantically was attached to women. Welcome. You are bisexual and there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Bisexuality is a spectrum. Think about it as percentages. Just like you, who wouldn’t mind sex with a woman, there are women who wouldn’t mind making out with a woman and not get sexually involved; Just a kiss. That 95% straight 5% lesbian woman is something I rarely see in men. I haven’t come across a guy who wanted to kiss me and that was it, but it’s possible in women. In this society it is fine for women to kiss on the cheek. Where you seem to identify yourself applies to men too. The wife who has a fwb hopefully someone who is not into relationship, maybe married too who just want to have sex, go do your thing and still in love with men, no romantic attachment to someone of the same gender, “we do our thing and then I’m out of here, call me when you wanna do it again.” Many guys fall in that group, like 80% more straight; Then there is the 50/50, regardless of gender whoever I find that makes me whole I am going to date that person. That’s where I fall (not really, I’m like 60% more gay), and yes that’s where any woman who wouldn’t mind living with a woman or a man falls: the true bisexual. Then there is obviously the other extreme, all the way opposite of you: a woman interested physically and emotionally in other women, who wouldn’t mind only sexual encounters with men.
Men- when do you consider a woman overweight? How slim or big is attractive?
You're husband's REALLY wrong. Most women would kill for 130. Overweight (in my book) is when you start getting jellyrolls in the gut, but being overweight is not necessarily unattractive. I've met some fine young women who were a bit heavy but were attractive as well. (Morbidly obese on the other hand... ugh.... O_O)
What are ten things that women think are romantic?
When he asks unfailingly every night if you have eaten dinner or not.When he knows you are tipsy after a late night party and stays on phone with you while the cab takes you back home.When he cracks lame jokes to make you feel good on a really difficult day.When he loves his tshirt but still leaves it behind for you because you found it smells so much like him, you can’t NOT keep it with you.When you’re both partying like wild gooses in Goa and after coming back home, you really want to do IT with him but he forces you to sleep rather than have sex.When you’re depressed at the world being unfair with you and keep ranting about your troubles and he responds with “kitna struggle hai na tumhari life mein” with all the seriousness.When you tell him a guy is chasing me in office and his response is a casual shrug and “you are mine forever, he will have to live with that.”When you’re down with pathetic period camps and he is looking at you with concerned eyes and a plate of kadhi chawal and keeps feeding one spoon at a time with all the care in the world.When you’re talking non-stop with feverish enthusiasm about some idle office gossip and he just keeps looking, without battling an eye lid, giving you his full attention.When he doesn’t judge you for your worst behaviour or actions.When he is sucker at dancing, but still dances with you only because there is just one woman he can ever think to dance with.Oops, Did I cover ten or have I over exceeded? I can go on and on about how incredibly romantic he is. It’s never the flowers and chocolates and diamonds and gifts that proves romance. Being romantic is love in all its true glory and colours, without any false pretence and show-off. And like most things in life, it’s the small gestures that convey the true romanticism.