I can't get a girlfriend. Anyone have any advice. ?
I can't get a girlfriend. I'm so depressed. First off, I don't like going to clubs or bars to meet women, so I don't even know any casual places to meet new women. Secondly all the girls I've ever wanted don't want me, and all the girls that want me, I'm not really interested in. The women I find attractive don't seem to find me attractive, they think I'm too short and skinny. I'm only 5'7 and weigh 135 lbs. I'm not looking for love, I just want a companion that I'm attracted to physically and mentally. Ugh, I feel pathetic on here asking this question. I used to be really confident, because I used to be able to get almost any woman I wanted, when I weighed 155 and was lifting weights. But I screwed up a good relationship, and lost all my muscle, and none of the women I find attractive find me attractive. It's so depressing being short, I think I wouldn't mind being short if I was back up to 155 or 160 and had some muscle, but I'm skinny on top of being short, and women find that less attractive than fat men. I don't know what to do, I have a good personality, and an awesome sense of humor, but women seem to like muscly tough guys with a bad attitude, and I'm not muscly or tough, or have a bad attitude, I have a sad attitude right now but it's because I'm so lonely, and women don't like that either. I guess I'll have to settle for someone I'm not attracted to, because it seems that's all I can get. Do I have to really eat 5000 calories a day, and lift weights 3 times a week to attract a woman I like, because my metabolism is so high, I have to eat more food than overweight people eat, just to gain a little bit of weight. here's my picture, you can't really tell how skinny I am in it though. http://s437.photobucket.com/albums/qq95/kctocho/?action=view¤t=k613.jpg
Need Advice on Hair washing after workout?
Great question..I just recently had this problem too.. You don't specify if your hair is colored which is one of the main reasons why people don't wash everyday ( in addition to that it's not really necessary unless you have very oily hair ) Here are my answers : 1. Washing you hair everyday can strip your scalp/hair of natural oils which lead to the over production of sebum or it can dry your hair out.. BUT if you use the correct shampoo and technique you can avoid this problem and extend your color if your hair is treated. 2. Sally's Beauty Supply has a sulfate free shampoo called HAIRONE. Actually it's not a shampoo.. it's a cleanser and leave in treatment. Because it's sulfate free it's safe to use everyday if needed. 3. Yes you can if you use it from half length to bottom. 4. Using conditioner will protect and moisturize your hair. This is a very important element in hair care so I would not skip conditioner or any form of leave in treatment. 5. No your hair will not fall out but you should choose a hair regime right for your hair. Now this is what I do: I use the HAIR ONE system to clean my hair every 2-3 days. In between I only rinse with water ( massaging the scalp for about 1 minute ) and a bit of conditioner. This is called Co-washing. Then I put some conditioner on the bottom half of my hair, let it sit the remainder of my shower then rinse. Believe it or not the best conditioners to do this with are the cheap ones ( which are silicone free ) such as SUAVE Naturals. NOW I can do this with my HAIR ONE cleanser but the reason why I don't is because it's $ 10.00 for a small bottle and I am trying to stretch my budget. But if money is not an issue you can use the HAIR ONE everyday with no problem. One bottle will last 2 months approx. I hope this helps !! ps: here is the link for the product I am referring to..hope you try it. http://www.sallybeauty.com/cleansing-con...
What do I do?(girlfriend advice)?
Okay so I was engaged to this girl a few months ago. We dated for 2 years and got engaged for 1 year. Along the way we’ve not encountered problems in our relationship involving trust and just not being happy anymore. She decided it would be best if we broke up so we did. I was crushed.. I was in love with this girl and I still am. 3 months have gone by now and I have just started dating another girl. A few days ago my ex texts me and says she misses me a lot and other stuff like that. I know I’m definitely not giving you all the details at all but this is just a brief summary of the mess I call my life. So my question is really, if you were me what would you do? How can I handle this situation? Should I go back to her? Or stay with this new girl I’m not sure about yet?
I need advice on three cosplays I'm working on. Help a girl out?
I am cosplaying as two female characters, one of which is in two versions. The are Noodle in Phases Two and Three (Gorillaz) and Princess Ai. First off, I want advice on if these are good choices for me. A lot of people will tell you how you look to start doesn't matter for cosplay, but it honestly does. You need to fit the character. I'm five feet tall, eighty-five pounds, hips 25 inches in circumference, stomach 23 inches in circumference. I wear size zero jeans, and they're big, and I wear junior's tens/twelve in shirts. Is the height acceptable for someone like Ai? I intend on wearing very tall heels, but I know she's also kinda tall. I'm just a kid, but I still want to look good. I'm going as-is for Noodle, since I already have sort of the same look. On my phase two Noodle, I want to do El Manana, Feel Good Inc, and DARE. I have a wig from Arda Wigs in the style called El Tigre, color 0023. The wig can be used for all three outfits. Problem is, it's long- REALLY long! I'm small, but it comes halfway down my back. Can anyone direct me to a nice tutorial on how to style a Noodle wig for this phase? I can cut it roughly, I know her hair very well, but some tips would be nice. Also, does anyone know of a place to buy the El Manana shirt? It seems impossible to find and I'm about ready to just give up and bring out the sewing machine. XD For Phase Three Noodle, I'm making the dress, gloves, and mask by myself. The dress is hard to find, and actually doesn't exist premade in my size. Anyone have a pattern I could use? Google Searching "Noodle On Melancholy Hill" will show you what the dress looks like. I would also like help deciding what color wig from Arda I should buy, because I can't figure out which ones I like better. Here is a link to Arda: http://arda-wigs.com/ Please tell me which color and style you think suits this costume best! ^_^ I want to cosplay Ai, the main character from Princess Ai, and I already have a base for my costume- A cute Halloween pirate girl costume. I'm gonna modify it until I like it, and it'll be fun! I plan on getting red heels, how tall do you think they should be? I was thinking maybe four inches, but I really don't mind taller. Opinions? Thank you so much for the help!
Abercrombie Model Diet/Workout for girls?
well you sound pretty healthy, but i would count my calories sticking to 1200-1500 a day and working out regularly. both to loose weight and built muscle. remember muscle burns 90% more than fat. eat healthy don't drink pop or eat: cookies, chips, candy, baked foods, etc good luck!
Straight girl in love with a gay guy. Advice?
I'm head over heels in love with my best friend who's a guy.. but he's gay. I sometimes think that he likes me too, he flirts with me a lot and says things to me and is more open around me than he is with anyone else. He tells me he's still confused and he thinks he still may like girls. We hold hands, he kisses me, we flirt and go to dances together as dates, etc.. what should I do? Should I just give up? He's younger than me and I'm going off to college in the fall of next year. Should I still stay interested in him, or should I try to move on? Don't be brutal, please.
Do girls like when guys work out?
I went to the gym after not going for 2 weeks and was pretty weak. I was in the middle of my workout and went to go to dips with a weighted vest of 30 pounds. I noticed in the middle of doing dips that my crush was in the corner doing another workout and I noticed she glanced at me several times while I was doing the exercise. Do girls like it when guys like to work out/ take care of their body? Cause I felt pretty self conscious...
Confused girl says she loves me but says it wont work out? pls read evrything.(GALS ADVICE PREFFERED)?
Alright... first things first... calm down. She has been through a serious traumatic event. It's the kind of thing that can affect a person for years. It's also not something you can't likely help her much with. She'll have to sort out her feelings on her own. Here's the step by step: 1. Calm down 2. Send her a text and apologize for freaking out. 3. Wait a day or so, let your head get around it and once you're completely calm (at least 24-48 hours... not five minutes.) 4. send her another text and tell her that you're ok with just being friends and that you understand that she has a lot to deal with and work through (because she does). Tell her that you'll give her some space (and do it) but that you're there if she ever needs a friend or someone to talk to. At this point you want to put yourself in the friendzone. While in the friendzone keep your feelings of love to yourself. Don't forget them, but just push it deep down inside and instead show your love by being there for her and being supportive while she works through it. It may take a while. Could take years. But, if you truly love her then you should be able to do this. Once she's done healing she may warm back up and then you can try again. Texting her repeatedly will do nothing but push her away (quickly). She told you what she needs, so let her have it. For now, make the sacrifice of your needs to help her get what she needs. She needs time, understanding and support. Good luck to you both