How do you apologize to someone to whom you have lied?
As a pathological liar currently undergoing therapy and proper treatment, I have been faced with this problem way more times than I wanted to.Answer: it depends on the lie.Sometimes you just don’t. It’s not worth it. Unless you get caught, there are lies you will be better off by sticking to them. Of course, you risk having to tell more lies in order to cover the first one until it becomes unbearable, in which case it is your call to decide when to admit falsehood.Nonetheless, at times you must apologize either because there is no choice or due to your conscience preventing you from sleeping. In such cases, your first step is to understand why you have lied in the first place. Were you afraid of facing the consequences of the truth? Have you gained any advantages out of it? Was it a small lie that grew out of your control?Then, remember exactly what the truth is. This may sound stupid, but our brain is a wonderfully creative tool, and it will fill any gaps in your memory with what seems logical, despite it being true or not. Thus, sometimes you will try to confess a lie and end up lying again because you forgot something, but at this point nobody will believe your memory indeed fail. So, recall everything as best as you can and check the facts discreetly.With that in mind, apologize wholeheartedly. Explain your feelings, your fears, your rationale - or lack of it. Do not blame others - it doesn’t matter what happened, you lied. You took advantage of another person’s trust in you. Do not assume how the person would have reacted, as you cannot foresee the future (do not say “You would fire me if I told you I had done it wrong!”, say “I have done it wrong and, as I did not have a good reason to explain my mistakes, I came up with that”). Be prepared as you will probably not only face any outcomes you were trying to avoid in the first place, you will also lose your reputation as a reliable person. Sometimes people forgive, sometimes they don’t. It’s their right to be mad at you and it takes time to rebuild trust.Last but not least: avoid, at all costs, lying again. Once you confess your wrongdoing, at least for a while you will be under scrutiny. The affected person (or people) may sometimes ask you meaningless questions just to test you. They will request proof of your word for significant affairs. And, should you be caught repeating your mistake, everybody but the most tolerant people will just give up on trusting you.
Will this Taurus Apologize and does he mean what he said?
So, i was talking to my Taurus Boyfriend and he said i have a young mind and that i'm weird and creepy. It hurts my feelings because his words were really sharp. I said goodbye and he texted me a smiley face. Any advice? Does he hate me? Is he annoyed or mad? Should i break up with him? I want to know what he thinks but i REFUSE to ask him or talk to him. I'm just pissed off right now. Please do not troll or say rude crap to me because it doesn't make my situation any better. Thank you in advance. Btw, i'm a Leo if that helps.
How to handle an angry Leo when he becomes verbally abusive? Time to back off? Will I get an apology?
I know that Scorpio and Leo can get into power struggles, and although I am very much a Scorpio, most of my other placements are in much more "submissive" and willing to please signs. I'm just trying not to be a pushover which I do feel like I have been :( Always looking to find the balance! It just makes it that much harder because I'm thinking so much about how to make it work and all of this, swallowing my pride in many ways, and he can't even apologize? -_- That's like he's not willing to do any work at all. Maybe I should just stop thinking about it and do WHAT I WANT. Let him come to me let him do the work. I've learned he won't do it unless he HAS to.
Do Scorpio's forgive easily, I'm so sorry for what i did to him I'm a Leo Woman.?
I have a Leo moon, so I understand how possessive and crazy Leos can become. ;) I'm pretty sure that he said he needed space because you were probably smothering/nagging him to death. I'm not being rude, I'm just being honest. I can tell that that was probably the scenario because you went bonkers when he asked you for a little space. Scorpios NEED space. They're the "thinkers" of the zodiac and if you don't have peace and quiet (SPACE) how are you going to be able to think? :) I think you SHOULD have gone to his house and talked to him. Actions are everything with Scorpios. You can apologize over the internet or the phone until you're blue in the face, but if you make an effort to show how much you care (without going into the Desperate Zone), they'll soften up. Normally, I would say that he's done with you, but he did unblock you, so he's either silently stalking/watching you, or he's getting ready to talk to you. I would just leave it alone. You cannot force a Scorpio to do anything. They're really sensitive and you probably hurt him a lot. Just go on about your life, maybe post a few interesting things on your FB, but don't make it look like you're having TOO much fun (he'll think you don't care, or he'll see through it and hate how fake you are on top of what you said). I wish you the best. Sounds like you really care for him. :)
Do Leo's tend to get jealous a lot?
yeah they jealous. my best friend is one and i cant begin to tell you the drama she puts me through. at school she got her hair torn out for sleeping with other girls boyfriends. she stopped talking to me because i was too sick to arrive at one of her parties. she does whatever she wants and thinks there is no consequences for anything on her behalf. she got mad at me plenty of times for silly stuff and hates apologizing. i told her to her face i dont appreciate her attitude and she thought insulting my looks would be a good comeback. very immature selfish jealous freak. sometimes i wonder how we managed to click for so long. im thinking about calling our friendship quits this year cause i dont have time for that in my life.
How come a Leo friend I'm ignoring is not ignoring me?
Leos can sometimes be a little insensitive to how their actions affect others; trust me, I know. I am a Leo. I have been known to be insensitive to others at times although I never do it intentionally; sometimes I just get caught up in my own thing and forget about everything else. Leos will not intentionally hurt anybody and if brought to our attention, we will usually apologize. Try to talk to him; explain the situation, why you're upset and give him a chance to apologize to you. I bet he will :) He may be completely unaware that he even hurt you.
How do us women get a Leo man's attention back?
As you all may have seen in earlier questions, I've been talking to a 41 year old leo male for over a year now via phone/email/text. We met at work but he said several times he doesn't want a relationship even though I did, but he "likes talking to me." As much as that bothered me, I've grown used to it. I found out through mutual friends he has big time issues (facing getting fired at work, can't find a job or even get an interview, is losing his home, recently is getting ordered to pay child support, and has severe emotional issues he's in therapy for). Knowing this, all year I've showered him with an abundancr of daily attention. I initiated it every morning. Been sweet as ever. Shower him with feelings, compliments etc. He loves it. Yet whenever he realizes his life is so horrible he snaps - turns his pone off, curses at me, pulls disappearing acts etc. He cursed at me for no reason knowing I was sick last week. I never responded and withdrew myself. He never spoke afterwards. Neither did I. Its been 5 days of silence. I genuinly just like talking to him. Whether it will result in anything or not.. I do like him. Do leos withdraw and shut down when their lives are this bad? Also do they play games like this with disappearing and not initiating convo? I read if you stop showing them attention they come back sweeter than ever.. True? What am I supposed to do to have him talking again? I honestly have been very hurt by this all....... Thank you.