Best friends.. can they become lovers?
yes, bestfriends can become lovers...i even think that it's actually better because you know each other really well, you care,trust and respect each other and you have the strongest bond: love... i think that you may not have heard from him because he is as confused as you are...he doesn't know if what he did was right and if you feel the same way for him...this kind of thing can be confusing, you see...you want to have this relationship but you're both so scared that if something goes wrong, you lose the friendship you have...since you love him too, i suggest that you do the thing that you said you didn't want to do: confront him...he did the first step of telling you how he feels...it's your turn now...tell him you feel the same, tell him you're scared too but if you talk about it, you cand find a solution together...tell him you don't want to lose your best friend even if things might not go the way you want them to...tell him that you want that 2nd kiss too...hehe!good luck!i hope you work this out... ^_^
Being friends with your coworkers/boss?
I was recently asked in a job interview how I felt about being friends with your boss and coworkers. I was friends with a boss once and it backfired on me, so I answered I think it's great if you become friends with your boss and coworkers but your there to do a job. You can be polite and friendly but focus on getting your work done first and foremost. After my incident with a past boss I made it a point to keep my professional/personal life separate. Did I answer that correctly? How would you have answered that? Thanks!
How do I become friends with this girl who works at the office where I am interning?
Before doing friendship you have to remember certain things lyk u should knw your limits bcoz u r a stranger to that girl so doing something over excited will make her feel that u r despo!!! 1)Eye contact :- whenever you saw her looking at you give her a smile ! :) (Outside ur office or at lift) Bt P.S give a decent smile not that flirty one 2) facebook :- one of the best place for making friends!!!! U r a boy so obviously you knw her name now so just send her a frnd reqst !! (If she is intrested in you she'll accept your reqst and if she's not then jst leave it she's having an attitude prob)3) chat :- as i mentioned above that she doesn't knw you!! Dn't start talking from the 1st day!! lyk some new posts and pictures of her !!Then after 5-6 days send her a msg !! 2 things can happen either she'll reply very fast or jst read ur msg and leave!! If the 1st thing happen then thumbs up and if the 2nd thing happen then sry :( 4) Chat duration :- the more she feel comfortable talking with you the more chat duration will increase ( dn't talk rubbish first try to talk about her department, job ur office etc etc some funny gossip ) girls loveee gossiping :-p 5) Friends Talk :-After all this give some time and then u'll realize how good friends you guys are !! Hope this will work :)
Friends can become lovers. Is it possible for lovers to become friends again?
Well, again subjective. Depends from person to person.Yes, its very easy for friends to be lovers but the vice versa may create problems. I am not saying that its impossible but its tough to be friends with people you have loved or are still loving and its not working out.Once you're friends after breaking up from the person you love, its becomes really confusing at time as to how to behave and what to say since you're now 'just friends'. You need to think and speak and make your every move as the person receiving those things should not feel that you guys are still in a relationship. But if the person is understanding then I don't think there is much harm. being friends. But the 'expectation' do tend to surface from time to time.There is a saying:Your ex asking you to be friends after a break up is like your mom telling you to keep the dog after its dead.
Is it healthy for teens to become friends with benefits?
I had my first FWB experience when I was in high school. I probably 13-years-old or so. There were so many problems going around so let me elaborate on some issues.Pros:Having friends with benefits means embracing your sexual desire. There’s nothing wrong with having friends with benefits as long as it’s a healthy relationship.You have “someone” very close to you to share most of your enjoyable moments.It's very nice to have someone being with you around all day or most of the time.Cons:It’s frowned upon by the majority.Your “girl” friends may avoid you.There will be a lot of “noise” behind your back.There may be an increase of a possessive attitude.You might become a “trophy” for the guy.I can’t think of anything else at the moment.
Why does a girl want me to become her friend?
Don't forget about building attraction. You know... even if you are a great person but don't know how to build attraction with women it's not going to work out. There are tons and tons of articles, books and websites about this topic.Taking the lead (being clear about your intentions (e.g. you like her) and Being pro-active is a great point to start with (e.g. arranging a date and sexually escalating) )If this doesn't work... maybe you just aren't her type of relationship material ;)
Is it okay to stay in touch with a former therapist or become friends?
Yes, you are correct, it creates the potential for what is called a dual-relationship.What if you decided after becoming friends that you needed to go back into therapy, this creates a dual relationship because your therapist is now also your friend. This tends to be frowned upon by all state professional boards since the potential for unethical behavior is so high. Also, do you really want to start a friendship with someone who already knows so much about you and you know so little about them? This create a power differential in the friendship from the start.I have never experienced what you are talking about. Occasionally, former clients email me to thank them for our work together or update me about their lives but it never goes beyond a single email exchange.However, I have had a few friends in the past who wanted to hire me as their therapist and I had to tell them “no” and why this would be unethical on my part. They understood and were able to find great therapists to work with on their issues.If you feel that there is more work to be done, perhaps you should go back into therapy. If your former therapist is not available…consider finding someone else.
How can an extrovert become friends with an introvert?
We're both 17, by the way. I guess I have an introverted side, but I'm mostly extroverted. I'm very social and friendly, and I generally like being around people. I open up to people fairly quickly - not so much or so fast that I could be easily emotionally hurt, but yeah. I'm the kind of girl who will hug someone else goodbye that I just met and spoke to for 10-20 minutes... and if they seem like really interesting and/or fun people, or in need of friends (such as if they're new to my school or something like that), maybe even trade phone numbers. On the other hand, there's this guy that I like. And he hates labelling himself and I don't really like labelling him (or myself) either, but for the sake of this post he's an introvert and I'm an extrovert. He hates hugs, he doesn't like to text or use social networking (ie. Facebook), and he has a few friends that he's close with. He generally tries to be nice to people he interacts with, but everyone else is just an aquaintance. I'm actually somewhere in between the two, like a friendly aquaintance, some odd middle ground there. We're in this school club together, that's how we know each other and also kind of where we do most of our interacting. He's also REALLY smart, I mean so am I but he's a grade ahead so he knows more than I do. The other day at one of the meetings for that school club, he was in this intense discussion about advanced chemistry with his friends, but I couldn't really understand or join because I had NO clue what they were talking about lol. It sounded like an interesting discussion, but I just didn't get it :P Oh, and he and his friends LOVE video games! haha, boys will be boys... Sooo... I have a few questions, but any comments you could give would be greatly appreciated. How can I become closer to this kid? How can we become friends? If (hypothetically) we ended up in a relationship, could it work out? Would I honestly be happy? Would HE be happy? Would I get bored, or crave what he lacks?