Would you prefer the housewife or the career woman?
You have two options. Pick which one you would prefer. 1. The love of your life wants to be a mother and a housewife. She doesn't want to go to college and she's always dreamed of having a family. She just wants to get married and have children. She knows how to cook just like her mother, she is loving and nurturing, she keeps the house impeccably clean, and she's perfectly content with being at home. She believes firmly in the idea that men are the breadwinners and that women shouldn't have to work. She's not too sophisticated in her tastes or interests and is happy with the simple things in life. She doesn't know much about politics or current events, but will take her husband's side on any stance he decides to take. She lets him lead and sees him as the head of the household. She's a traditionalist and conservative in how she behaves and dresses. She will love you unconditionally and always revere you in the highest light. 2. The love of your life has a spark in her for adventure and dreams of accomplishing amazing things. She's educated, intelligent, worldly, and can hold her own in any conversation. She is a savvy networker and puts her skills to use working in public relations. Her job is fast paced and unpredictable and that's what she loves about it. She gets to work with people from all over the world and her experiences make for exciting, lively conversation every day. She dreams of one day working as a press secretary or diplomat for the U.N. She wants to have a family as well, but decides that she would rather experience the world first before having children, meaning she insists on putting it off until she can settle down a bit. She's home by 5 pm most days and dinner is always spontaneous, because of both of your busy schedules. She respects you and finds your work fascinating, and you love that she relates to and understands everything that you talk to her about. You two differ on some issues and since you're both lively debaters, there is never a dull moment when discussing politics. Overall, she loves and cherishes you as her partner and wants to go on a million adventures with you in life. Which one do you choose and why. Ready, set, go.
I want to be a housewife, what do I do?
I completely support my fiancée and 3 young children. She stays at home and takes care of the kids/laundry/housework. I wouldn't have it any other way. I know where my children are every moment of the day, and at the same time, I don't have to pay for childcare. I could NEVER be a stay at home dad. It is very hard and demanding. I was blessed with a woman who is more than willing and loves staying home with the kids. If you can find a partner who can support you and the kids, and is agreeable to you staying home, why not? Good luckEdited to add my third child :)
Would you date or marry a woman whose only life goal is to be a housewife and stay-at-home mother?
Why Not…. if Your Able.. and She is the Right Person for YOU…** My Wife Doesn’t work and her kids are grown.. but She is So Much a Support to Me.. that Her Help is Way more Important To Me.. than what ever kind of money She could Bring In……Also, working she would only get a couple of weeks off for the entire YEAR… I Own My Own Company… so I get to take more time off and She can Easily go with Me… So that’s also a Bonus….OK… Good luck..
Does no one wants to marry a girl who wish to be a housewife?
I would like to explain why guys would like to marry a girl who is working. Personally, I would like to marry a girl who has a passion or at least a job which she likes doing. Working is not just about money but also about a lot of other factors. When a person has a job, he has to travel, he has to meet new people, has to meet certain deadlines, has to beware of politics around him and has to maintain good relationships with people. So apart from the money factor, it's all these factors that help a person become more aware of his surroundings, become smarter which helps in decision making, travelling helps t h e body stay fit and because a person has to communicate constantly with other people, it helps him culminate people's skills and broaden his knowledge. A working person has a better shot at keeping up with latest trends, news, fashion, economics, etc just because he is exposed to the outside world. Now I am not saying a housewife won't be exposed to all these things, but I would think the exposure would still be limited. And now the most important aspect is the financial aspect. Cost of living is going up day by day, luxuries are becoming necessities, education fees are steep, rents are going up and because of social media pressure people are spending more on things and places just so they can keep up with their friends lifestyles .Everyone wants to live that lavish American life - work hard for 5 days and then party on the weekends!! Guys are no longer looking for a girl who will only cook and stay at home. They r looking for someone who will walk hand in hand with him in all walks of his life, a girl who has an opinion of her own, a mind of her own, a girl who is knowledgeable about the world around her and that knowledge is useful in everyday decision making. Yes, my last few words were harsh, I accept it. Do not take it personally. I am not trying to put u down, but just giving a view point about what goes on in a guys mind before he decides to marry a girl. To answer your question, not every guy is looking for a working girl to be honest. There are guys who are well settled and would not feel the need for their wives money. Look for these kinda guys and I guess u will be sorted, if you do not feel like working after marriage. Cheers!
How do I tell guys that I want to be a homemaker while dating?
Growing up I was told I was old fashioned becasuse I wanted a wife who would be a homemaker.I learned over time that as much as I desired this I needed to keep it on the downlow because I realized most girls who “wanted to be homemakers” in fact just wanted a free ride in life.They wanted to watch more Netflix, they wanted a big fancy home that they could lounge in with their friends. They wanted to pawn the kids off and travel every month, they wanted fine wine and a life full of passion and pursuit of awesome coolness.And they wanted a man that would provide it.But they weren’t going to school for…well anything. They tended to never try to work out. They were shy of camping, biking, hiking or of the outdoors in general. They made no effort to educate and elucidate. They made no efforts to understand how to sew, how to cook, how to clean. They were not very empathetic to others plights (a must for kids).In short I realized that “being a homemaker” to many guys is to girls what “Being a nice guys” is to many guys. There is likely a better comparison out there, but they seemed to expect something for nothing. That they were in effect waiting for their Knight in Shining armor to descend from the clouds and rescue them from a life of plain.I’m not saying this is true of you, but I’m telling you the perception that I got from most people who said they wanted to be a Stay at home mom, a housewife, a homemaker or a domestic engineer.Your actions will speak far louder than your words on what kind of person you are, and if guys know what kind of woman you are they are far less inclined to worry about what kind of woman you will be. If they know you are a hard worker, who is getting a great education (education is not necessarily college related), and putting your skills to work they know that you will be successful and the right one will help you reach your goals no matter what they may be, even if that means being a homemaker.So I would say don’t bring it up until it comes up naturally in conversation with the guy - let it be a natural progression of you. When it happens naturally the people to whom this matters wont mind, and those that mind wont matter.
My boyfriend wants me to become his housewife and have no career. What do I do?
There is no shame in being a housewife and taking care of the house and family, especially if you have kids. Raising good kids is a very difficult task and thats what makes mother’s so special.There is a grand misconception these days where it is considered lowly to be at home. In all honesty the human race has evolved and survived due to the different roles that men and women play in society and Im sorry to be sound conservative, but men and women are different, they are wired differently and due to these reasons they perform certain tasks better than the other.Im tired of ultra feminists people stating that ‘women can do all that a man can’ ,that might be so but that does not make it their optimal task. Certain women could make great CEO’s, while certain women would make great house wives.Could Sharing Housework Equally Send You To Divorce Court?Studies are now showing that conflicts and subsequently Divorce can result from lack of clarity of tasks. Meaning if both partners earn, both partners share the housework their likelihood of divorce is higher.Women are simply trying to compete with men to be exactly like them, please note there is a difference in being equal and being the same.
Are there any men these days that desire to have a housewife/homemaker over a working wife?
I worked from age 14 to 25. I was married at 23. My husband knew that I really wanted to stay home and be creative and domestic, so he gave me that opportunity. I loved it - for 23 years I was a SAHM - and loved every minute of it. Now I work full time and love it. For me, it was about seasons of life and what I wanted to do in those seasons. Man and wife should be in tune with what is going on with each other. If a wife wants to stay home and the finances permit that - should not the husband be willing and supportive. As a couple, we are in this together and seek to work together to accomplish the goals of our family and individual goals as well. I am not sure you are correct that most men detest women who stay home. My husband loved it and the fresh meals, clean home and happy children that came with my choice. I know many men who respect their wives for staying home and appreciate them. My opinion of men who feel this way? Please value your wife, her desires and respect her as a person and individual. Do not place a persons value in what they do, rather than who they are.
Can i date my uncles wifes nephew?
Your uncle's wife is your aunt (by marriage). Since there is no blood relation there, yes you can date her nephew...because he is also no relation to you. Blood cousins can date and marry all over the world...the only restriction is in some US states and some countries, first cousins cannot marry (in some states/countries they can)...everywhere all other cousins can marry so your aunt-by-marriage's nephew is a non-issue...good luck!!!