Is it OK to date during separation?
everyone's idea of dating during separation is different. just like everyone's idea of dating is different. first you have to define dating. are you talking about going out to dinner with another man, but no sex involved? or are you talking about seeing someone else exclusively, sexual relationship involved? because I've been there, twice, I will give you my take on the situation. first, you have to be sure you are emotionally ready for this. second, I would not suggest getting into a sexual relationship with someone while your marriage is on the rocks. it's like cheating, and if you want to work it out with your husband, it puts you at a disadvantage. this is your time to find yourself, who you are and what you want besides your marriage. it's not to say you don't want your marriage or your husband, but you need to know who you are and what makes you happy before you try to make it work, or even get out. having sex with someone else doesn't help you find yourself, it helps you get attached to someone else while you're trying to find yourself. the best thing I ever did was not date while I was going through my divorces, and I've been there twice. I read where someone said that second marriages often fail because they dated while they were separated and chose someone like their ex... I wanted to find myself again, and get happy. I wanted to know who I was without a man in my life. and it prepared me for the wonderful person I met when the dust settled, the divorce was final, and I was emotionally ready to move on. for me, dating around with guy friends who I had no sexual interest in was a smart move. just think about what you want. and don't do anything that you're not ready for. don't do it because your husband suggested it. (in the state I live in, it's still adultery even if you're separated while it's going on, and he may be trying to get you into something you don't want to be involved in.) take this time for you, find out who you are beneath the wife and mother, find out what makes you happy. and go with your decision, whether it's to stay in your marriage or get a divorce. you're the one who has to live with your decision, not all of us who are giving you advice. good luck with your decision.
I’ve been separated from my ex for a little over a year and haven’t spoken in 7 months. Why can’t I get over her?
“I’ve been separated from my ex for a little over a year and haven’t spoken in 7 months. Why can’t I get over her?”Wow! Look at how much detailed and necessary information you provided for us!Sarcasm.There’s NOTHING in your question that lets me know how to answer you. No mention of how long you were together, no hint as to whether you were married, or just childhood friends, or one-time dates, or whatever. No notes about whether you ever really knew her, or you just lived out a fantasy while she was going about her business doing other things.Nothing.So let me say something about me, instead. The first bad break up I had, was a very long time ago, but it was the girl I started dating in the last year of high school, and then attended four years of college and lived with for four more years. We were engaged for a while. When THAT relationship exploded, it took me almost two years, just to realize that the entire world didn’t consist of depressing damaged muck. It was over six months, before I stopped thinking every morning, that I was about to see her again. And that was in spite of the fact that I dumped HER, and that she moved three thousand miles away as soon as she graduated.So compared to that, your year of separation and seven months of no speaking, is a wink of nothing.How long it takes anyone to get over someone, depends onhow long they were together;how much of the future they had come to regularly imagine the other person being there;how they think about love itself;what their life goals are;how old they were when they got together, and how old they are now;how much other romantic experience they have.More than anything else, you wont start “getting over” your ex, until you firmly decide to work on getting over your ex. It can take a lot of work and a lot of effort, sometimes, just to smile. So you might start actually trying to be done, in the usual ways: make sure you eliminate all reminders of your ex from your immediate surroundings. Replace anything and everything you have that had to do with your ex, including clothing your ex wanted you to wear. Do different things that you did with your ex. Shop at different grocery stores, even.You’ll be fine, if you both accept that it DOES take time to heal from something that was real, AND that you wont make any real progress until you consciously WORK ON MAKING PROGRESS.
What would you do if you were separated from your squad in a firefight and found your self surrounded by enemies?
Depends on what we mean by separated.Close separation:I can see my squad, but am not able to get to them physically. Perhaps I crossed a street first, and then the enemy MG opened up, pinning me in place.Hold position and defend myself, providing what fire I am able, until my squad or I can create an opportunity for me to rejoin or break contact.Moderate separation:I done fucked up, and my squad is over there while I am over here. Keep a low profile. Avoid contact with the enemy. Either fall back to friendly lines, or maneuver to rejoin my squad.Total separation:I don’t know where I am, and I don’t know where my squad is, and its enemy as far as the eye can see.If I have a radio, request orders from higher. Possibly provide reconnaissance information or artillery observation until extracted.If I don’t have a radio…fuck. Low profile. Avoid contact. Escape and evade.If I don’t have a radio, and I’m in active contact, ie being shot at…well, time to start stacking bodies. Shoot and scoot, and see how big an honor guard I can kill before I go to Valhalla.
I got pregnant while me & my husband were separated and i dont know what to do?
My husband knows there is like a 95% chance it isn't his baby since I was seeing someone else as he was too. But we decided to not divorce and repair our marriage right before I found out I was pregnant. The other guy isn't in or want to be in the picture. Do you think we can salvage our marriage still? My husband wants to work things out but he doesn't know if he can get over the fact I. May have another mans baby. (He was sleeping with someone else also). Will he be able to get over this if its not his baby?
Would you date someone who is legally separated?
I met a wonderful guy 2 weeks ago and found out that he’s legally separated and still living with his wife. She lost her job and has nowhere else to go, or at least that’s what he says. I really like him and I think that maybe it could go somewhere, but I can’t forget the fact that he is still married. Should I make this an issue and not date him, or is it not such a big deal?
What does it mean to be separated during the navy’s boot camp, and why? Also, what happens or goes on when you are separated? Is it bad?
I was not sepped, however my fiancé was. He was booted for anxiety. Most of those who got kicked out in my division were sepped for anxiety/depression, failure to pass two PFAs, etc. When that happens, you go to Ship 5 and sit around for a while until you get sent home. I've heard it's mostly boring. My fiancé was removed from training in week one and he left a month and a half later. He said it was mostly boring. He called once a week and I got a letter every day.
My husband got another girl pregnant while while we was separated?
To make a long story short, me and my husband split up in Jan and by April he had another girl pregnant. I found out and told him that I would stay by his side as a friend. The girl claimed that she was getting an abortion, and that is when we got back together. Now that the girl has changed her mind and is going to have it. It changes the whole game between us. I thought I could still stay with him, but I am just flat out hurt. He tries to make it up to me but this is a pain that can not be cured with any type of material thing. I can’t sleep my face is breaking out and my stomach hurts all the time. I don’t want to leave him but this is a new ball game now. He will have to pay child support to another woman for one and considering that we are married she can dip into my pockets also. Second he will have to have some type of relationship/communication with this girl. When I took him back none of this was going to happen, no her, no baby. Now she is going to keep the baby
Can you separate dogs during intercourse?
No, you can't separate them, you might injure them. They will separate when they are done.
My wife and I separated earlier this month. Should I still do anything for her for Valentine's Day?
Yeah, I would, you spent a part of your life with her and she'll always be special! It dosen't have to be ugly or nasty, sometimes it just don't work out! You should be cordial and remain friends, especially if you have children! Get her a card or something that says you appreciate her as a friend, accompanied with flowers!