Should I run away with my boyfriend?
My parents don't like my boyfriend and told me if i don't leave him there gonna kick me out and want nothing to do with me. I love my boyfriend so much we been together for 2 years and known each other for 6 years. I don't think it's fair what my parents are doing to me. So I was thinking about running away to be with him
Should i run away with my boyfriend?
ok me any my boyfriend have been dating for 2 yrs.and weve gone through alot of problems but there fixed. when we first dated i cud see him. since i moved its turned into a a long distnace realtionship. i dont mind it but id love to be with him. my parents dont kow about him. and if i tell them theyll kill me. he has a grreat job! he gets paid 100$ and hour! hes guna get his permit soon and and this summer hell have his lisence. he lives with his uncles friend and he says he has a place for me there. my parents have made me miserable. i wanna be with him but there always on my *** about guys. anyways, hes amazing.. i love him to death! e also loves meee. he already told me that if he loses me hell die. and so will i. he want to marry me. hes already bought me a 5000 dollar necklace. hes done everything for me. but he says that after i get my lisence hes coming to get me. bascilly im running away. and i want to. soo ******* badly. if i tell my parents theyll never let me be happy. my dad will send me too bootcamp. ill never be happy. all i wana d is be in his arms again infoo... his names matt amazing. i love him to death. he has a amazing job and cud support me. hes 16. im 15 he has a place for me in his buddys house. my parents wont ever alow me to date. they want me to hav a arranged maraige. if i leave him ill never be happy. hes my life. i cant be without him. hell do anything for me. andything i need hell do it. he cares for me. he lves in minesotta and i live in illinois, hes willing to get me and support me. fulfill ever wish i have. and love me. my parents on the other hand. they wouldnt care, theyd do anything to take me awa from him. im glad they dont know. should i run away?
Can I ask my boyfriend to run away with me?
Thanks for the A2A!If I were your boyfriend, I would love to hear your views, no matter how childish and immature they sound. After all, being in a relationship means learning from each other and understanding each other, knowing each other better. So yes, I would highly recommend you to ask it to your boyfriend.As for his answer, I would recommend to listen to him very carefully. As you seem to me a really childish person, if you are a lucky one, then your boyfriend will try to reason with you. Explain the risks and threats of the decision you are asking to make. Explain the complexities of life to you. Basically, try and get you down back to earth.Again, I would recommend you to listen to him. Do listen to him! LISTEN TO HIM!
I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18. we want to runaway. ?
Okay so i need ALOT of help lol. i hate living at home. its driving me crazy. my parents r so strict and seem to hate me. i get in trouble for EVERYTHING. small or big they like to punish me and hurt me and im sick of it. i've been through so much and in life and im so messed up because of them. im scared that if i stay here much longer ill become nothing in life and my life will just continue to go down the wrong path. i hate life and don't want to live when im here and constantly have suicidal thoughts but my boyfriend keeps me strong. so i need to get away. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and i love him with all of my heart. he has alot of money and we would have a good place to live and he's able to support me because he has a good job and he's still in high school because he missed too many days when he went into the hospital for cancer. but he's doing alot better now and has been out of the hospital for some time now but he has to make up credit hours for school and thats why hes still a senior, he re-took the year over again. i want to runaway with him but im scared. mainly because im 16 and from what i know runningaway from home at 16 is illegal and ur parents can get you back. and im scared that they will find me...n i know if they find me they will kill me... [[literally]] and that scares me so bad...but i just can't b here anymore, i suffer too much. so i want to know if my boyfriend will go to jail for runningaway with me? because he is no longer a minor, he's an adult because he's 18 and im still a minor. but its only like a 1 1/2 year difference so how is that bad? his birthday is aug. 11, 1990 and mine is april 18, 1992. so could he go to jail for runningaway with me? also if he could go to jail, wat would he go to jail for? and for how long? i don't know wat to do...i was thinking about waiting till i turn 17 to leave because from wat i know you can leave the house at 17 because you no longer have a curfew at that age and you can leave and never come back because u have no limitations of when you have to be home. and minors have curfew like by law, i tihnk itz 10:30pm is the longest they can stay out. so yah i was planning on waiting till i turn 17 but that seems so far away...if i do leave at 17 with my boyfriend who would still b 18 until his bday in 3 monthz. wat percautions would i have to take and is it illegal? please i need alot of help... :(
I wanna runaway with my boyfriend...?
I dont know what to do we have been planing this for 2 weeks he lives in arizona and is here visiting me he wants to take me back to go live with him and his family we are both 15 im suck of my moms bs and im leaving in 4 days but I dont know what to take or do
Should I run away from home to live with my boyfriend?
Um you're just gonna have to deal with it until you're 18.. Your parents can call the cops on you if you just "run away" .. They are gonna know where you are so this isnt a good plan at all.. I may be coming off harsh but i've been through this . During my teen years i thought about running away too but let's be realistic.. You're still a minor and can your bf support you fully ? Do you two get along well enough to actually live together ? My mom has always hit me too growing up but being the age that i am now (18) i realize that this was the only way she knew how to deal with anger so i dont blame her. Yeah its tiring but running away will only make things worse for you . Maybe suggest to your mom to see a therapist ? psychologist ? Hitting is never okay so i can see how you're over this situation . My real suggestion is to Not run away but maybe when you're at home stay away from your mom so she doesnt have a reason to hit you.. Visit your bf maybe.. if you can be over there a lot then by all means do that but i dont suggest you living there .. How are you gonna finish school and all that ? You realize its all gonna be difficult if you run away but it's gonna be way harder than you think .
How can I talk to my boyfriend and not run away?
My dear, l don’t know why you meant by run away while still calling him your boyfriend? This doesn’t sound to me like a responsible relationship in any possible ways.I could only assume you two have been through some sort of arguments. In this case, If he has done things wrong or treated you badly (assuming it’s not often), you should first calm yourself down, not overreact, and responsibly start the conversation with your bf as soon as you can, coming up with a proper solution that would alleviate the problem and help you both come to an understanding.On the other hand, if you know it really is your fault, don’t run away my dear. It will severely compromise your relationship since your bf probably guesses you hate him so much that you wanted to end the relationship (while you are just too nervous to face him because of your guilt and shame at the sight of him).Avoidance and unacceptance of the truth would only worsen the situation ; rather, just talk with him over the phone or in person to at least let him know what you are really feeling, and maybe you just need some time alone.Be verbal about your emotions and thoughts in love relationship is so critical.Never run away. Face it. Understand it. Only then, you are free to make your decision to stay or leave.
Me and my boyfriend want to run away together?
We are 14 and we have terrible lives...we feel like nobody loves us and we are worthless...we know where we are going and everything...but if we get caught...im ganna lose everything!What do i do?
What do I do if my boyfriend is planning on running away from home?
I agree with the other answers that you can't run away with him. I suggest that you talk to your parents about the abuse, and also talk to his aunt. If enough adults are questioning physical abuse and offering him a place to stay then his mother will know that she has to treat him well. Many school systems (all systems in the USA) have a reporting system where if they are told of child abuse (and at 17 he still qualifies) then they must report it to the authorities. A call to the child welfare department should also bring results.Child abuse is more common than most people want to believe. But, you did meet him in a mental institution, so also prepare yourself to accept that he might have been lying. His aunt will know the true story, and hopefully she will share it with you.I can see that you are a sympathetic person. Your boyfriend does seem like a friend in need, and I believe that you would ask for help on his behalf if he was a platonic friend. Please, though, do not fall into the habit of forming romantic attachments to men who need rescuing. Your boyfriend has too many problems right now to be involved in a relationship. You might help him more by being a true friend.