If you see an attractive girl in public, how would you personally approach her, and what would say to her? (I'm trying to learn better social skills)
Social skills take years. Here’s the fucking answer to approaching girls…There’s many ways to approach an attractive girl in public. And what I’ve learned from my few years studying “picking up girls” when I was younger is that there are two ways most social interactions go…NaturallyUnnaturallyNatural encounters are the ones you couldn’t have planned even if you wanted to. Some random girl bumps into you and drops the book she’s carrying and it so happens to be your favorite childtime novel. You guys end up hitting off for hours on end chatting about the novel, the author, and the new screen adaptation being released next week. Blah, blah, blah… You guys end up having the perfect conversation, at the perfect time, with the perfect potential date next week.The second way, unnatural situations, are pretty much the situation that 99% of guys (and girls) will encounter daily throughout your lives. You walk into a coffee shop and see a beautiful girl sitting alone working on her laptop. Or a girl is leaving the gym and sees a stunning guy lifting weights with headphones on in the corner. And the truth is, natural beats unnatural in every way. And every person prefers graceful situations where everything flows and rolls off the tongue.But from my astute observations as an INTJ, I’ve learned that the very best pickup artists develop a sort of database some small, some large of simple conversation starters for these unnatural situations. And the sooner you create a few you like, that work for your conversation style, the sooner you can approach girls in these situations instead of waiting for the miracle encounter you see in love drama movies.So to help you out, here’s one of my openers. Use it as you please…Me: Hey! You can’t do that.Girl: Do What?Me: (Fill in bullshit policy or rule) You can’t wear tights if you’re going to be dancing at this bar.Girl: Really? I didn’t know. Whyyy?Me: (Bullshit, Bullshit, Bullshit) They say the guys get too distracted and end up buying much less beers throughout the night and drives down the bar’s revenue.Girl: Whatttt?!!! That’s crazyyyyyy!Me: (Laughs face off for a minute or two.)Me: I’m just fucking with you! Felt like causing a little trouble.Proceed to have a fun, engaging, and hilarious conversation.That’s all you have to do. Some work better than others. But ultimately, the goal is to make your social interactions feel as natural as possible.Thanks for reading.Follow My Quora Below
My co-worker farts constantly?
What you have described above is a clear case of workplace harassment. That you have discussed this with your boss who has done nothing due to his embarrassment is a disgrace. Do you not have any work place legislation laws where you are? Here in Australia, if what happens to you happened here, there are multiple sources for the victim (you ) to complain to and those sources are required by law to stop this harassment from occurring. Do you have a Union delegate, shop steward or someone like that? If it was me, I would tell this slovenly woman to stop now or Id be seeking legal advice. No one has to be in a workplace like that. Stand up for yourself. Under the circumstances, this foul woman would have no choice and I am sure all your other work mates would support you.