Why do men honk their horns at women they see walking down the street? Do you know that women don't like this?
First of all, I realize that not all men do this. If you don't, then thank you for being a gentleman and know that this is not directed towards you. However, if you do honk at women, then keep reading. You might think that you're giving her a compliment by honking at her and letting her know that you think she's attractive, but women really don't find this flattering. You just wind up startling the hell out of them. Car horns are designed to alert another driver of something, such as when the light turns green and they don't go, or if they are about to hit another car, or they are driving dangerously. Honking your horn is the equivalent of yelling "WATCH IT!" or "WAKE UP!" and startling the other driver into paying attention. When you honk your horn at a woman walking down the street, you're startling her, too, and her nerves get all shook up for no reason at all. Instead of thinking, "oh, how nice, someone thinks I'm pretty," she thinks, "What the hell is that bastard doing honking his horn in my ear like that?" People don't like to be startled. Remember when you were a kid, and someone snuck up behind you on the playground and yelled "BOO!" You didn't like it then, and women don't like it now, either. So the next time you think a woman walking down the street is attractive, keep your thoughts in your head and your hands away from the horn.
What does it mean when you catch a guy staring at you and then quickly looks away?
The first, most common sign that he is interested is that he looks at you and looks away when you see him. He may look awkward. You know it's a good thing when he smiles at you. Sometimes it may feel tense because you haven’t spoken to each other before.He may also avoid making eye contact. If he glances at you to ask common questions in class like "Where do we turn this in?" or "Did you understand this question?” then he may be nervous but wants to get your attention. He's intimidated because you're attractive. If he looks at the floor while talking to you, he's just shy.This is important! If he looks at your eyes and then your lips, you’ve sealed the deal: He likes you. What guy looks at a girl’s lips if he isn’t into her? If he gets close or even hugs you, he is throwing signs at you and it's up to you to catch them.Ignoring someone is another sign of liking them. Watch carefully next time you see him: if he sees you glance or stare at him a lot and quickly looks away but with a serious, blank, or curious expression, see if he ignores you the rest of the day. If he does, then he likes you. You have really got to him and he likes you, but he doesn't know how to approach you.What Do You Do Now?That depends on your situation. If it's someone you see regularly but don't really know, try to befriend them with a conversation about an upcoming school event, class, or club.Don't be afraid to try a simple, "Hi, my name is _____." If they like you, they'll be so happy you made the first move. If not, then at least you'll know and you can find someone who does.You could also find him on Instagram or Facebook and friend him. That might be enough for him to feel encouraged to talk to you.Once you know what your crush is like, it will be easier to figure him out. When you come across a guy with the right characteristics, then chase him. Or make him chase you!
How to handle beggars (liars) harrassing you in the street?
It is my first day here in Manchester. It's a beautiful city and has great friendly locals except for one thing-foreigners asking for money. As we were walking down a street which I forgot the name (sorry) I saw two Bosnian-looking girls laughing happily together, who walked passed us. Then suddenly one of them approched me and my mom asking for money for her "three children". My mom didn't notice the two together before, so she felt sorry and gave her 10 pounds. Then the other one came and she followed us for quite a distance asking for money, grabbing our coats. My mom just took out 2 pounds and handed it to her, but she thought it wasn't enough... She still followed us! So my mom just pulled me into a group of people and pretended we were part of the group. They invited us to go upstairs into a cafe, and she still followed us till the front door. She waited there for around 5 minutes before being called out by the waitress of the cafe. A few hours later we went to grocery shopping at Worldwide and she was there again!!! She followed us until the end of the street-asking for more. They were wearing a fancy headscarf and full winter clothing that looks like it was new, so I don't think they couldn't afford to eat etc. My sister who's studying here also faced the same problem. Help me please I am now scared to go outside... Appreciate your guidance :)
Are you telling the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth? (joke)?
Well your honor, I was rear-ended by a car this morning... right then I knew it was going to be a really bad day! When the driver got out of his car, I realized he was a dwarf as were the other people in his car. He looked up at me and said, "I am not happy!"So I said, "Well, which one are you then?" And That's how the fight started.
What does it mean when a girl smiles at you every time she sees you?
First of all you must get to KNOW her and that means doing some investigation without her noticing. Its typical that we MEN sometimes do not get to KNOW a woman better before asking her out on a date. During a conversation(she does MOST of talking) sexually convince her she's our princess(or queen) and have sex with her. Now since woman rely to TOO MUCH on feelings and imagination and don't like to be lonely we MEN must understand the "body language" of a woman.When a woman smiles at a man she is giving him the signal "I like you like you why don't you just TALK to me get to know me?" I had that happened to me countless of times and will strike a conversation that will give me info about her.I allowed her to do most of talking without interrupting but with "Hmmmm" "Yeah" "Ummmm" or just nodded my head(Women LOVE to be heard and HATE being ignored!)And from there we become friends and later romantic lovers. I only did this as an experiment because friends will dare me to talk to a pretty woman. So I did and got rewarded for my venture.I have a wife :)
How would you define a ''desperate girl''?
I would define a desperate person as someone who has a fear of being alone, either in the short term or long term. They either cannot find a relationship or just got out of one and are looking for a quick rebound one to fulfill their comfort level. A desperate girl might come on strong, such as turning casual conversations into more serious topics such as having children with you, marriage, long term plans, etc. In this case, I would say that your friend is wrong. Looking good and smiling in no way is a sign of desperation. Even those that are not desperate, which would be those either not looking or in long term relationships, like to flirt. It is natural. Also, just talking about how you are looking for a nice guy is also not a sign of desperation in itself. Now, if that is all she talks about day in and day out and constantly steers all conversation into relationships, then yes, that may be a sign. However, mere mention of it is not.