What would a guy say "you could be the One if you play your cards well"?
lol... that is a rather bizarre statement.... sounds like your auditioning for a job!!!.... I would no doubt laugh it off... but think ... wtf did that mean?..... he is telling you he likes you.....yet putting you on some type of notice... that he is evaluating you for the future.. and putting you in a position of trying to please him while he manipulates you. to do so......weird.. .or he is just trying to tell you that he thinks the relationship could become very serious.. without coming out and saying how he really feels... he may be testing the water - so to speak to see how you respond.. best thing to do is just to ask him what he meant by that...instead of playing word / head games with you , he needs to speak more clearly and honestly.... jeez and they say us women are hard to understand!!!!!!! lol..
What are the pros and cons of being the one to say “I love you” first?
Pros: You possibly come off as very self confident and masculine. In other words, you may come off as a person who knows what he wants and someone who goes after what he wants. If you are a woman then you may just be perceived as a self confident person.If you are a man you are seen as a guy who knows his feelings. If you are a woman you are seen as a female who is attuned to her feelings and not afraid of expressing them. Guys generally find such women very attractive. It creates that heart-to-heart connection that so many men crave on a level that women cannot even begin to understand.Cons: If said too early during the dating and courting process you can instead come off as emotionally immature. That is to say, clingy and needy. You may come off as a person who depend on that other person for your happiness. You may be perceived as someone who is inexperienced with relationships and as someone who has no interests outside the relationship.If you are a woman and present yourself too much as a chaser and the one to push the relationship forward with a decisive intention you will be seen as a woman who falls into her masculine energy. You become the pursuer and chaser. This can turn off men because you force them to fall into their feminine energy. You become the provider and protector that they generally want to be, and they become the person who leans back and allows themselves to receive which you should be doing as a woman. Men can pull away from such women.Now, don’t let all of this discourage you. It is all about knowing where you stand with your man or woman. Don’t go spilling your feelings out if you have barely started dating. On the other hand, if you feel like you’re ready to take the step into dating exclusively and calling yourself girlfriend/boyfriend then by all means say that you love that other person. That will definitely seal the deal.
Pros & Cons of Standing up 4 Yourself.?
1. pro- a sense of self respect and self worth. con- some people might perceive it as being too assertive. 2. It will let these type people know your strength, it will let those type of people know that you will not stand for any of their mess, it will prepare you for the many fake people and false promises that you will come across in life and be able to recognize it and deal with it. 3. benefits- people will trust you and know where you are coming from. downsides- most people like a person when they go along with their thoughts, actions or ideals, a person who at times challenges that will not be too popular with them. 4. it helps u get what's on your mind out in the open, it takes the load of your shoulders, and that always helps, because you will learn to release those burdens that come in life and speak your mind. 5. it makes you look strong and confident in yourself, that you are not dumb and definitely not a pushover, these are qualities of a leader. 6.it can as long as you don't too far with standing up for yourself to the point where others are now afraid to deal with you. 7.The best thing to do is to take from what others say and use it to make yourself a better person, if you are confident in yourself what others say will not affect you, it will only make you stronger. 8.Low self esteem, feelings of not being worth anything, possible depression; this person will be destroying him/herself from the inside out, mentally,physically and emotionally and if they don't change their mindset will never have the strength to make it through this tough life without always being hurt, pushed around, made fun of, and disrespected.
The Pros and Cons of being a Satanist and practicing Witchcraft?
Edit: I know Satanism doesn't involve witch, I should've worded my sentence better, but I also want to study witchcraft too. It's a good match, I just want to know what I'm getting myself into.
What are the pros and cons of joining the US military and more specifically the US Navy?
I am retired military, more specifically, US Navy. I was enlisted in the Air Force, then an officer in the Navy.For one thing, in any of the services, you are a member of something greater than yourself. When you look at the civilians equivalent to your age, you are much more mature, have more leadership and responsibility, and have set goals. The first two or three times I went home on leave I couldn’t believe what a rut my friends were in, except those going to college.I lived in three foreign countries (Greece, Panama, and Okinawa Japan) and I loved it. I also visited nineteen more countries.Then there are the VA benefits, such as college (which I used after my time in the Air Force. You can also buy a house through the VA with zero down payment.The pay is good, the lifestyle is decent, the camaraderie is outstanding.
What are the pros and cons of becoming a web developer?
I’ll do my best to touch on each of your questions. I’ve been a web developer for 14 years.Some pros:If you’re freelancing, you set your own hoursThere’s always plenty of work (assuming you take pride in your work, and are skilled)You’re constantly learning– there are always opportunities to learn and improveHaving a strong foundation in web development often serves as an enabler and a gateway for other pursuits (mobile development, etc.)If you push yourself into becoming a strong developer, you can make a great livingSome cons:Sometimes it can feel pretty repetitive, but a lot of this depends on your working environmentIf freelancing, you’ll need to deal with billing– specifically, people that are slow to payWeb developers are often pretty opinionated– you’ll hear a lot of people debate stupid things that don’t matter that much… examples include precompilers, preferred javascript frameworks, and decisions that can cost (maybe) 100ms of load time. Although, I’ve been in a few situations where these decisions do matter.I respectfully and wholeheartedly disagree with anyone that says web development is dead. If you’re looking to simply convert PSD’s to HTML and stop there… that’s still a thing, but, it’s pretty commoditized now. If you’re looking to create brochure sites (like what you can get out of Squarespace, and others)– you should be cognizant that this too is relatively commoditized.With that said– there’s a lot (a LOT) of opportunity for skilled web developers capable of building and interfacing with API’s, service layers and more. Now, more than ever, there’s a high-demand for rich interfaces with beautiful experiences that require strong JavaScript skills and frameworks like Angular and Backbone. There are also tons of opportunities for full-stack developers that can take web apps end-to-end (interface to database).I’ll not be so bold as to offer you career advice (I don’t know you), but I will say this– if you’re interested in becoming a web developer, do it! I’ve enjoyed it, and it has opened a lot of doors for me– including launching my own startup. With 14 years of design and development experience, I’ve been able to create apps and businesses for other people while learning from their successes and failures (while getting paid!). I use my experience as a web developer everyday in my new position, as the CEO of a startup.